AA doesn’t just “help” people. It also harms — and in some cases, kills. This episode is a deep dive into AA: Who It Helps, Who It Harms, Who It Kills, and Why by Dr. Edward Wilson, PhD.

We’ll explore the central premise of the book: that AA is either irrelevant or actively harmful for most people who misuse alcohol. You’ll hear clips from the author himself, and then I unpack the book through the lens of my own experience after 10 years in AA and 5 years out.

We’ll look at why AA only works for a narrow group, how it harms “normals” who might have recovered naturally, and why it can be deadly for the bright, creative, independent thinkers who are forced to conform and cut off from self-trust.

For anyone deprogramming from the cult religion of Alcoholics Anonymous, or anyone seeking new ways to understand alcohol addiction, this book is a liberating resource.

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Timestamps:

00:00 AA Helps, Harms, Kills intro

01:24 Author Dr. Edward Wilson reaction

05:10 Minnesota Model doesn't work?

07:26 Why people think AA works

10:28 Ego development: protect + conform

11:36 Ego development: outgrow AA

12:06 Ego development: AA harms

15:54 Ego development: AA is toxic

18:21 Who AA helps, harms, kills

19:01 Recovery + growth outside AA

20:26 "In Recovery" identity stunts growth

21:04 Dr. Wilson's multi solution approach

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