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02- Straddling Cultures, Finding Self

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In this episode, we explore the topic of straddling multiple cultures and multiple sets of expectations. I grew up with my family's ancestral culture, which is a blend of Chinese/Vietnamese values, which is mostly oriented around safety, security and stability (past, present and future). In addition, I've learned to straddle western values of "do what you want", "be creative", "follow your dreams." I've learned to show up with different versions of myself that would maximize a sense of acceptance and belonging with these different groups.

The problem is that sometimes we don't realize that the values, beliefs, behaviors that we internalize and adopted may or may not be true to our authentic heartfelt values. We are so good with putting on so many masks to impress others, that we forget that we even have any masks on.

This podcast is for those who can identify with this and want to answer the questions: "Who am I? What do I want? What is really true to me and what have I unknowingly adopted that I want to shed and release?"

If you didn't get a chance to figure out what you truly value and have not been granted the permission to orient your lives around you, consider this to be your permission slip to BE you and DO you.

Come follow me on instagram @heyangelatam and my newsletter here. Looking forward to adventuring with you!

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Chapters

1. Podcast Introduction and Purpose (00:00:00)

2. Angela's Background and Family Experience (00:01:05)

3. Straddling Multiple Cultures and Expectations (00:03:40)

4. Reorienting Your North Star (00:08:06)

5. Parenting Differently and Intergenerational Impacts (00:11:10)

6. Every Relationship as a Portal for Growth (00:17:00)

4 episodes

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Send a DM to Angela directly! Share your comments, feedback and feels.

In this episode, we explore the topic of straddling multiple cultures and multiple sets of expectations. I grew up with my family's ancestral culture, which is a blend of Chinese/Vietnamese values, which is mostly oriented around safety, security and stability (past, present and future). In addition, I've learned to straddle western values of "do what you want", "be creative", "follow your dreams." I've learned to show up with different versions of myself that would maximize a sense of acceptance and belonging with these different groups.

The problem is that sometimes we don't realize that the values, beliefs, behaviors that we internalize and adopted may or may not be true to our authentic heartfelt values. We are so good with putting on so many masks to impress others, that we forget that we even have any masks on.

This podcast is for those who can identify with this and want to answer the questions: "Who am I? What do I want? What is really true to me and what have I unknowingly adopted that I want to shed and release?"

If you didn't get a chance to figure out what you truly value and have not been granted the permission to orient your lives around you, consider this to be your permission slip to BE you and DO you.

Come follow me on instagram @heyangelatam and my newsletter here. Looking forward to adventuring with you!

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Podcast Introduction and Purpose (00:00:00)

2. Angela's Background and Family Experience (00:01:05)

3. Straddling Multiple Cultures and Expectations (00:03:40)

4. Reorienting Your North Star (00:08:06)

5. Parenting Differently and Intergenerational Impacts (00:11:10)

6. Every Relationship as a Portal for Growth (00:17:00)

4 episodes

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