034- Self-Gaslighting in Midlife: The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Being ‘Fine’
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Are you really “fine”… or just faking it to power through another day? In this episode, we’re calling out self-gaslighting—those sneaky thoughts that tell you to suck it up, stop being dramatic, and push through—even when your body is clearly waving a yellow flag.
In this episode we:
- break down how midlife women dismiss their own energy signals
- what the science says about it
- why trusting yourself is the most powerful form of self-care.
- You'll learn how to spot when you're heading toward burnout and build micro-habits to stop the spiral before you hit the red zone.
💡 Plus: A personal challenge to stop minimizing your needs and start honoring your energy like you would for your best friend.
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Chapters
1. Self-Gaslighting in Midlife Women (00:00:00)
2. Recognizing Your Yellow Zone Signals (00:03:50)
3. How Hormones and Stress Affect Self-Trust (00:05:59)
4. The SMASH Framework for Self-Advocacy (00:08:28)
5. Homework and Energy Tune-Up Resource (00:11:29)
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