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When Fear Shapes Your Relationships: How Survival States Quietly Pull You Away

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Content provided by Lauren Dry. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Lauren Dry or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t look like being alone. It looks like a full life, a partner you care about, a home you’ve worked hard for, yet something inside you still feels distant or quietly aching. Maybe conversations feel shallow, you’re carrying more than anyone realises, or you feel misunderstood in the places that matter most.

In this episode, Lauren Dry is joined by Emma Gibbens, a speaker, author and mentor who helps people talk about the things they usually avoid. Together, they unpack why loneliness shows up for high-functioning adults, how dissociation can sneak in without noticing, and why connection can feel risky even when you want it.

This conversation is about clarity, honesty and learning to stay with yourself long enough to reconnect in a way that feels real and mutual again.

You’ll hear us explore:

  • Why loneliness appears even when your life looks full and functioning
  • The difference between healthy space and emotionally checking out
  • How fear and survival patterns shape your reactions and assumptions
  • Why friction and discomfort are part of real intimacy
  • Small ways to make hard conversations feel safer for everyone involved

Resources & Links:

  • Learn more about Rise into Regulation, the skillset for connection, communication, and nervous system safety in modern marriage → Rise into Regulation™
  • Follow Lauren on Instagram → @lauren_dry

Connect with Emma Gibbens:


If something in this episode resonated, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or connect with me on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you.

Big love,

Lauren X

  continue reading

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Manage episode 521581118 series 3681908
Content provided by Lauren Dry. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Lauren Dry or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t look like being alone. It looks like a full life, a partner you care about, a home you’ve worked hard for, yet something inside you still feels distant or quietly aching. Maybe conversations feel shallow, you’re carrying more than anyone realises, or you feel misunderstood in the places that matter most.

In this episode, Lauren Dry is joined by Emma Gibbens, a speaker, author and mentor who helps people talk about the things they usually avoid. Together, they unpack why loneliness shows up for high-functioning adults, how dissociation can sneak in without noticing, and why connection can feel risky even when you want it.

This conversation is about clarity, honesty and learning to stay with yourself long enough to reconnect in a way that feels real and mutual again.

You’ll hear us explore:

  • Why loneliness appears even when your life looks full and functioning
  • The difference between healthy space and emotionally checking out
  • How fear and survival patterns shape your reactions and assumptions
  • Why friction and discomfort are part of real intimacy
  • Small ways to make hard conversations feel safer for everyone involved

Resources & Links:

  • Learn more about Rise into Regulation, the skillset for connection, communication, and nervous system safety in modern marriage → Rise into Regulation™
  • Follow Lauren on Instagram → @lauren_dry

Connect with Emma Gibbens:


If something in this episode resonated, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or connect with me on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you.

Big love,

Lauren X

  continue reading

28 episodes

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