Have you ever wondered why relationships sometimes feel harder than they “should”? Or why certain patterns of fear, distrust, or emptiness keep showing up in your life?

In this episode, Dr. Patty and Lizzie Shutt explore the impact of attachment trauma and developmental trauma, shedding light on how early disruptions in the caregiver–child bond shape our emotional lives. Drawing on clinical wisdom and lived experience, they break down what trauma really means, why two people can have such different responses to the same event, and how these early experiences ripple into adulthood.

Through stories and reflections, they discuss how insecure attachment styles often develop as adaptations for survival—and why awareness, self-compassion, and relational support are key to healing. You’ll also hear how trauma can manifest in the body, create difficulties with trust, and even lead to feelings of emptiness or disconnection that are hard to name.

The episode offers hope: while attachment wounds run deep, they are not permanent. With mindfulness, self-compassion, somatic practices, and supportive relationships, healing is always possible.

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Key Takeaways

• Trauma is not the event, but what happens inside of us as a result of the event.
• Attachment trauma occurs when there is a rupture or chronic misattunement in the bond with a caregiver.
• Trauma can manifest as emptiness, difficulty trusting, or emotional/physical symptoms.
• Healing does not come from “figuring out why,” but through embodied presence, mindfulness, and supportive connection.
• Group work and community can be powerful antidotes to relational trauma.
• Parenting after loss or trauma requires awareness and support to break cycles of pain.

Attachment Trauma, Developmental Trauma, Insecure Attachment, Anxious Attachment, Avoidant Attachment, Disorganized Attachment, Healing Trauma, Trauma and Relationships, Mindfulness and Trauma, Childhood Attachment, Somatic Healing, Emotional Resilience, Relational Healing