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When Your Dog’s Behaviour Feels Like a Personal Attack (Even Though You Know It’s Not)
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Have you ever felt like your dog’s behaviour is aimed directly at you?
Maybe they pull on the lead, bark at another dog, ignore your recall - and suddenly you feel embarrassed, frustrated, or even hurt.
You know logically they’re not trying to make your life harder, but it still feels personal.
You’re not alone.
In this episode of The Mindful Dog Parent, we’re unpacking why so many dog owners internalise their dog’s behaviour - and how to break free from the guilt and shame that follows.
You’ll learn:
- Why we take our dog’s behaviour personally (and the emotional patterns behind it)
- What’s actually going on in your dog’s nervous system when they “don’t listen”
- How to stop blaming yourself and start building calm, trust, and connection
- A gentle mindset shift to help you feel more confident on walks and at home
- A weekly challenge to interrupt the self-blame spiral and see your dog’s behaviour in a new light
If you’ve been dealing with reactivity, pulling, barking, or unpredictable behaviour, this conversation will help you approach training and everyday life with more compassion - for yourself and your dog.
Because here’s the truth: your dog’s behaviour isn’t a reflection of your worth as a dog parent. But how you respond can change everything.
Links and Resources:
- Free Guide: Practical Strategies for Overwhelmed Dog Parents - gentle tools to help you and your dog regulate, reset, and reconnect.
- Connect with me on Instagram: @lavendergardenanimals
- Watch this episode on YouTube: COMING SOON
Mentioned in this episode:
Something New Is Coming: The Calm Connection Challenge
Ready to feel calmer and more connected with your dog — and yourself? In this short teaser, I’m letting you in on something exciting coming at the end of September… a free 4-day challenge created especially for overwhelmed, anxious dog parents who are craving more peace, ease, and confidence. ✨ Think of it as a gentle reset — no pressure, no perfect dog required. Make sure you’re following the podcast and keep your eyes on your inbox so you don’t miss when the doors open. You’ll get daily support, calming tools, and simple ways to show up differently for your dog… and for yourself. Not on my email list yet? Sign up to my free Strategies for Overwhelmed Dog Parents download so you’re the first to hear all the details: https://lavendergardenanimalservices.myflodesk.com/strategies-for-overwhelmed-dog-parents
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