Episode 4 – The Myth of the Perfect Dog: Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations

We’ve all seen the calm café dogs, the Instagram-worthy heel walks, the “well-behaved” pets who never seem to put a paw wrong…

And it leaves you wondering - why can’t my dog be like that?

In this episode of The Mindful Dog Parent, I’m calling out the unrealistic expectations we place on ourselves (and our dogs), and exploring how “perfect dog” culture is quietly fuelling burnout, comparison, and guilt behind the scenes.

We’ll explore:

✨ The subtle pressure to have a “good dog” and what that really means

✨ Why comparison culture is leaving dog parents emotionally drained

✨ How unrealistic training timelines can erode your confidence

✨ What happens when we measure progress by behaviour alone

✨ Why your bond with your dog matters more than polished obedience

✨ How to reframe your expectations so you can show up with compassion, not criticism

Whether you’re a first-time puppy parent or managing reactivity, this episode will help you feel less alone - and more empowered to build a calmer, more connected life with your dog.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast app.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Free guide – Practical Strategies for Overwhelmed Dog Parents: https://lavendergardenanimalservices.myflodesk.com/strategies-for-overwhelmed-dog-parents
• Want to go deeper? Check out my Quick Calm Down Dog Mini Course: https://lavendergardenanimalservices.co.uk/quick-calm-down-kit

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love it if you’d hit follow or share it with a fellow dog parent. You can also DM me on Instagram @lavendergardenanimalservices and let me know what landed for you!

Your dog doesn’t need perfect. They need you - just as you are.