Episode Summary:Why do we keep repeating the same relationship patterns?What if the key to better sex and deeper love lies in how we were attached as children?
In this raw and revealing episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Certified Relationship and Attachment Trauma Practitioner Bev Mitelman to dive into the power of attachment theory. From the bedroom to the boardroom, our attachment style influences how we love, communicate, and connect—with others and withourselves.

Bev specializes in working with peri- and post-menopausal women navigating sexuality, self-esteem, and relationships. She shares the truth about secure vs. insecure attachment, how radical honesty can revolutionize connection, and why healing your childhood wounds might just lead to your best sex life yet.
This is your permission slip to stop performing and start connecting—for real.

Bev Mitelman is a Certified Relationship and AttachmentTrauma Practitioner and the founder of Securely Loved. Her work centers on helping women—particularly those in their peri- and post-menopausal years—rediscover confidence in dating, rebuild connection in long-term relationships, and develop healthy, respectful parenting dynamics.
With deep expertise in attachment theory, Bev brings a unique perspective to sexuality, intimacy, and self-worth. She supports individuals and couples in navigating how childhood trauma and insecure bonding patterns can impact adult relationships. Her mission? Helping people connect authentically through the power of radical honesty—because we’re living in a world starving for realness.
She works with clients individually and as couples, and also explores attachment in parenting and even in the workplace. Bev believes healing starts with securing the relationship you have with yourself.
🔗 https://securelyloved.com/

Host Bio: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex& intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.
She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real,and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”
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