Breaking Free from the Exception Trap: Redefining Success on Your Own Terms
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đĄ Episode Summary:
In this deeply honest and empowering solo episode, Lori Pine shares her personal story of breaking free from The Exception Trapâthe pressure to always overperform, over-deliver, and prove your worth. As a former corporate VP and now executive coach, Lori invites listeners into the emotional cost of being âthe one who makes itââand the quiet burnout that often comes with it.
Through the lens of her own professional success and personal loss, Lori unpacks what it means to redefine success on your own terms. If youâve ever felt like you had to earn your seat every day, this episode offers the permission slip you didnât know you needed: to rest, to realign, and to lead with joyânot exhaustion.
Whether you're navigating corporate life, entrepreneurship, or a leadership transition, this episode will help you return to yourselfâand your true definition of success.
đ Key Takeaways:
The Exception Trap is Real
Being âthe exceptionâ can feel like a badge of honorâbut it often comes with invisible emotional labor.
Success Without Alignment Is Exhausting
Lori shares how she climbed the ladder only to realize it was leaning against the wrong wall.
Let Go of Whatâs Not Yours to Carry
From grief to corporate pressure, Lori walks through how she learned to release responsibilities that didnât belong to her.
Stop Performing, Start Leading with Presence
Authentic leadership isnât about always having it togetherâitâs about being real, being present, and being human.
From Approval to Alignment
This episode is a roadmap for shifting your motivation from external validation to internal alignment.
đ Mentioned in the Episode:
- Loriâs journey from VP to Executive Coach
- The concept of The Exception Trapâand how it sneaks into ambition
- Reflection practices for redefining success
- Leadership lessons born from grief, burnout, and transformation
⨠Reflection Prompts:
- What am I chasingâand who am I chasing it for?
- Where am I operating from approval instead of alignment?
- How would I lead differently if I didnât have to prove myself?
đ§ Who This Episode Is For:
- High-achieving professionals struggling with burnout
- Women in leadership redefining what success means
- Executives ready to lead with authenticity instead of perfection
- Coaches and mentors navigating personal transformation
đŠ Want to Go Deeper?
- Reflect on your own Exception Trap using Loriâs journal prompts
- Follow Lori Pine on LinkedIn for weekly insights and leadership tools
- Book a 1:1 Strategy Session with Lori: loripine.com
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