13: How To Have Difficult Conversations, Featuring Dr. Bill Doherty, Co-founder Of Braver Angels What Do You Mean By That? podcast

Are you a little worried about holiday conversations with your relatives and family members in this increasingly polarized political climate? You're not alone.

Welcome to something new – a live discussion with our guest, Dr. Bill Doherty, co-founder of Braver Angels and a deeply experienced relationship therapist, coaching one of us (Sara) through how to have difficult conversations, not in theory, but with an actual extended family member who has differing political viewpoints from me.

Nowadays, politics is personal. So, as much as it's tempting to bury our heads in the sand, these conversations are skills of democratic living - we can't abandon them at a family level and expect our political leaders to do it for us.

You won't want to miss the discomfort, the realizations, the tips and perspectives that can help us ALL have better, more meaningful connections and conversations with the people we love in our lives – even and especially if we don't always agree with them.

What to listen for:

What are the two types of conversation levels, and what you should do when one or both are challenged by something like a provocative question
Why it's important to have difficult conversations like these 1-1, versus in a group
How we approach these conversations with a "grownup" mindset, despite what we're seeing these days on a more global scale

About our guest:

Bill Doherty is a Professor Emeritus in the Department of Family Social Science at the University of Minnesota. As a therapist, he focuses on couples on the brink of divorce and on political stress in relationships. He has authored 14 books for professionals and the public. Following the 2016 U.S. Presidential election, he co-founded Braver Angels, a citizen initiative bringing conservatives and liberals together to counteract political polarization and restore the fraying social fabric in American society. Bill is the chief designer of the Braver Angels workshops and has conducted workshops all over the country, including for state legislatures and Members of Congress. Braver Angels now has volunteers working in all 50 states. Among his awards is the Lifetime Achievement Award from the American Family Therapy Academy.

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How to have uncomfortable conversations, our primer for holiday seasons

How to have compassionate dialogue, with Dr Nancy Dome

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