Episode 30: Misguided Expectations - How Unrealistic Standards Quietly Divide Marriages
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In this week's episode of The FOCUS Podcast, I'm joined by my husband, Jason, for a real and unfiltered conversation about misguided expectations in marriage — the kind that slowly create distance without us even realizing it.
After 27 years together, we've learned that most disconnection doesn't come from big betrayals — it comes from the small, unspoken assumptions we make about how love should look.
We talk about: 💛 The "invisible rulebook" we all bring into marriage 💛 Why saying what you need isn't weakness — it's wisdom 💛 How "should" statements quietly erode connection 💛 Why appreciation changes everything
If you've ever thought "They should just know" or felt misunderstood in your relationship, this episode will help you shift from frustration to clarity — and from expectation to appreciation.
🎧 Listen now on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube. 💬 Share this with your spouse or someone who needs a reminder that love isn't about perfection — it's about communication and emotional safety.
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