💡 Episode Summary:

In this episode of I’ll Say It Anyway, we’re diving deep into the truth that most success books and podcasts gloss over:

You will never outperform your self-image.

It doesn’t matter how many vision boards you make, how many early mornings you commit to, or how many business strategies you try—if your subconscious mind doesn’t believe you’re worthy of success, it’ll sabotage your every move.

Drawing from Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and the teachings of Bob Proctor, I break down why your self-image is your internal thermostat, how it auto-corrects your results, and what to do about it.

This one’s got fire, coaching gold, and a few mic-drop moments that will make you rethink every time you’ve “almost” hit your goals and pulled back.

🔥 In This Episode, We Cover:

• What your self-image really is—and why it matters more than your to-do list
• The science of cybernetic programming (don’t worry, I make it sassy)
• How your subconscious thermostat snaps you back to “just enough”
• 3 ways a low self-image sabotages success (especially for women)
• The real definition of cognitive dissonance and why your brain freaks out when you start leveling up
• 5 practical, powerful steps to rewire your self-image starting today
• Why belief—not hustle—is the secret sauce to transformation

🛠️ 5 Ways to Rewire Your Self-Image:

1. Identify your current paradigm
2. Visualize yourself already living the life you want
3. Use repetition with emotion to reprogram your subconscious
4. Act like her now—walk, talk, and show up as your next-level self
5. Surround yourself with evidence of your greatness (and watch your words)

💬 Memorable Quotes:

• “You’ll ghost your own greatness if the image in your head says you’re not that type.”
• “Repetition without emotion is just homework. Repetition with emotion is programming.”
• “Stop trying to outperform the problem. Start upgrading the programming.”
• “You are way too wonderful to keep playing small just to keep your subconscious mind on autopilot.”

🎯 Call to Action:

If this episode hit you in the gut in the best way… you’re not alone. This is the work I do with coaching clients every day, and yes—I’ve done it with myself, too.

So if you’re tired of spinning your wheels and ready to finally build the self-image that matches the life you know you’re capable of—follow, share, and reach out. You don’t have to do it alone.

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