Why “Fake It Till You Make It” Fails and What Builds Real Confidence
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In this episode of Career Clarity Unlocked, Career Coach Theresa White reveals why “fake it till you make it” is keeping professionals stuck, and what to do instead. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing confidence instead of living it, this conversation breaks down the real roots of confidence: self-worth, self-trust, and authentic self-expression.
Theresa walks you through her proven framework for building confidence from the inside out, using a powerful tree analogy to explain how confidence grows (and why most quick fixes fail). You’ll learn how your early experiences shape your beliefs, how to rebuild trust in yourself, and how to show up with clarity in your career—without pretending to be someone you’re not.
🎧 What You’ll Learn:
- Why quick-fix confidence career advice doesn’t work
- How to rebuild your self-worth and self-trust from the ground up
- What “embodied confidence” actually feels like
- How your childhood patterns may still affect your confidence at work
- Two powerful case studies of clients who built real confidence through career clarity
- How to move through rejection without collapsing your self-esteem
📍Episode Guide:
00:00 Introduction to Career Clarity Unlocked
00:39 The Importance of Confidence in Your Career
01:19 The Tree Analogy of Confidence
02:33 Unpacking the Layers of Confidence
02:50 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Confidence
04:44 Building Self-Trust and Authentic Confidence
07:42 The Problem with Surface-Level Confidence Advice
09:46 Understanding and Embracing Your Beliefs
15:22 The Role of Self-Worth in Career Confidence
22:28 Strengthening Self-Trust for Lasting Confidence
27:06 Embracing and Moving Through Rejection
27:54 Building Self-Trust and Confidence
28:35 Real-Life Confidence Example
29:56 Strengthening Confidence Through Practice
35:27 Aligning Body and Mind for Authentic Confidence
38:22 Case Study: Career Change Challenges
43:34 Case Study: Building Confidence from the Ground Up
51:42 Career Change Masterclass
52:52 Final Career Tips
If you're done performing and ready to feel confident in your own skin, this one’s for you.
🎓 Free career resources to support your career clarity & confidence:
- [Career Change Masterclass] → www.careerbloomcoaching.com/masterclass
- [Transferable Skills Guide] → www.careerbloomcoaching.com/the-ultimate-transferable-skills-guide
- [12 Days of Career Goals] → www.careerbloomcoaching.com/12-Days-of-Career-Goals
- [Impact-Driven Job Guide] → www.careerbloomcoaching.com/Impact-Driven-Job-Guide
💼 Services:
- Book your free clarity consultation → www.careerbloomcoaching.com/consultation
Connect with Theresa White:
- LinkedIn: @Theresa A. White
- Facebook: Career Bloom Coaching
- Instagram: @theresa_careerbloom
- YouTube: careerbloom
- TikTok: @career.bloom
- Website: www.CareerBloomCoaching.com
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