Search a title or topic

Over 20 million podcasts, powered by 

Player FM logo
Artwork

Content provided by Gerard Virga, Esq. and Gerard Virga. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Gerard Virga, Esq. and Gerard Virga or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.
Player FM - Podcast App
Go offline with the Player FM app!

S1, Ep 19, Divorcing a Narcissist: Red Flags & Survival Strategies with Katie Bergman, LMHC

44:22
 
Share
 

Manage episode 510532431 series 3650034
Content provided by Gerard Virga, Esq. and Gerard Virga. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Gerard Virga, Esq. and Gerard Virga or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode, Gerard Virga speaks with mental health counselor Katie Bergman about the complexities of dealing with narcissism in relationships, especially during divorce. They explore the characteristics of narcissistic personality disorder, the dynamics of relationships with narcissists, and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. Katie emphasizes the importance of therapy, support systems, and practical strategies like the gray rock method for navigating interactions with narcissists. The conversation also touches on the impact of narcissistic behavior on children and the healing process after leaving such relationships.

Takeaways

Narcissism is often misunderstood and overused as a term.

The honeymoon phase can mask underlying issues in relationships.

Gaslighting is a common tactic used by narcissists to undermine self-esteem.

People often struggle to leave narcissistic relationships due to emotional bonds.

Therapy is crucial for individuals recovering from narcissistic relationships.

Documentation is key when dealing with narcissists in legal situations.

The gray rock method helps maintain neutrality in communication.

Children can be significantly affected by narcissistic parenting.

Rebuilding self-esteem takes time and effort after a toxic relationship.

Support from trusted individuals is essential for recovery.

"What is a narcissist?"

"Surround yourself with trusted people."

"Narcissists generally don't apologize."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Mental Health and Divorce

02:56 Understanding Narcissism: Definition and Traits

10:08 The Honeymoon Phase and Its Aftermath

16:09 Breaking the Cycle: Recognizing Reality

22:11 Seeking Help: When to Start Therapy

24:11 The Importance of Professional Guidance

25:16 Building a Support Network

25:57 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior

28:55 Effective Communication Strategies

35:10 Impact on Children and Co-Parenting

37:29 Healing After a Toxic Relationship

40:56 The Nature of Narcissism

44:11 Resources for Support

  continue reading

18 episodes

Artwork
iconShare
 
Manage episode 510532431 series 3650034
Content provided by Gerard Virga, Esq. and Gerard Virga. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Gerard Virga, Esq. and Gerard Virga or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode, Gerard Virga speaks with mental health counselor Katie Bergman about the complexities of dealing with narcissism in relationships, especially during divorce. They explore the characteristics of narcissistic personality disorder, the dynamics of relationships with narcissists, and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. Katie emphasizes the importance of therapy, support systems, and practical strategies like the gray rock method for navigating interactions with narcissists. The conversation also touches on the impact of narcissistic behavior on children and the healing process after leaving such relationships.

Takeaways

Narcissism is often misunderstood and overused as a term.

The honeymoon phase can mask underlying issues in relationships.

Gaslighting is a common tactic used by narcissists to undermine self-esteem.

People often struggle to leave narcissistic relationships due to emotional bonds.

Therapy is crucial for individuals recovering from narcissistic relationships.

Documentation is key when dealing with narcissists in legal situations.

The gray rock method helps maintain neutrality in communication.

Children can be significantly affected by narcissistic parenting.

Rebuilding self-esteem takes time and effort after a toxic relationship.

Support from trusted individuals is essential for recovery.

"What is a narcissist?"

"Surround yourself with trusted people."

"Narcissists generally don't apologize."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Mental Health and Divorce

02:56 Understanding Narcissism: Definition and Traits

10:08 The Honeymoon Phase and Its Aftermath

16:09 Breaking the Cycle: Recognizing Reality

22:11 Seeking Help: When to Start Therapy

24:11 The Importance of Professional Guidance

25:16 Building a Support Network

25:57 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior

28:55 Effective Communication Strategies

35:10 Impact on Children and Co-Parenting

37:29 Healing After a Toxic Relationship

40:56 The Nature of Narcissism

44:11 Resources for Support

  continue reading

18 episodes

All episodes

×
 
Loading …

Welcome to Player FM!

Player FM is scanning the web for high-quality podcasts for you to enjoy right now. It's the best podcast app and works on Android, iPhone, and the web. Signup to sync subscriptions across devices.

 

Copyright 2025 | Privacy Policy | Terms of Service | | Copyright
Listen to this show while you explore
Play