Series 5: Borderline in Wonderland - Emotions like storms. Love like fire. A heart that’s too big for this tiny teacup world.

E94: The Queen or the Caterpillar — Idolizing and Demonizing Others

In this episode, we step into Wonderland’s hall of shifting mirrors, where people can look like royalty one moment—and like enemies the next. “The Queen or the Caterpillar” explores the intense emotional flips of idolization and demonization that often come with borderline personality disorder. Whether it’s placing someone on a pedestal or suddenly seeing them as a threat, these extremes aren’t about manipulation—they’re about survival. We’ll dive into why this happens, how it impacts relationships, and what it feels like to want to love someone while struggling to trust who they really are. Because in Wonderland, people don’t always stay who they seemed to be—and neither do we.