The Heart Sell - Building Business Through Authentic Connection with Dora Rankin
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The Heart Sell - Building Business Through Authentic Connection with Dora Rankin
From Corporate Banking to Heart-Centered Sales: How This Entrepreneur Ditched the Bro Tactics
What if everything you learned about sales and marketing in corporate America was wrong? Our guest today walked away from a 25-year banking career, fired her PR team mid-book launch, and built a business teaching women entrepreneurs that relationships, not tactics, drive revenue.
Meet Dora Rankin: seasoned banking executive turned business coach, author of The Heart Sell, and the woman who's bringing authenticity back to sales strategy.
Why This Matters Now
Most business owners don't understand the difference between sales and marketing. And that confusion costs them growth. Dora spent decades in corporate banking leadership, worked with high-growth fintech startups, and studied women's entrepreneurship at Cornell. Then she walked away from it all to teach a different approach: one where connection trumps conversion tactics every single time.
The Permission Moment
Dora's sister told her at 42, "Take everything wrapped around your pinky and give it to women." That permission, combined with immediate action, changed everything. She left the "corporate trafficking" of senior leadership roles where she had to filter her authenticity, and created a business where she chooses her clients instead of tolerating them.
Here's what most people miss: having the moment of clarity isn't enough. You have to take action on it. Otherwise, it just becomes another moment that passes.
Why She Fired Her PR Team
Dora published The Heart Sell, intending it as a "vanity play"! A big PR push with national and local agents running campaigns. She found herself at a major NYC event talking about the book, and realized: "I don't like this. I don't like how it feels."
So she fired both PR agents (after paying them serious money) and started teaching the curriculum at small business development centers and women's business centers to founders who couldn't afford $25,000 masterminds. She fell in love with actually teaching the content instead of promoting the book.
The lesson? Your original plan might be completely wrong, and that's okay. The book became a blueprint for teaching rather than a marketing tool.
Sales vs. Marketing: The Confusion Costing You Growth
The foundation of The Heart Sell addresses what most founders get wrong: they don't understand the difference between sales and marketing. Dora lays out the distinction simply and provides strategic roadmaps so you can actually grow your business instead of spinning your wheels.
Her approach isn't about being everywhere on social media or chasing follower counts. She doesn't need 1.5 million followers because she's not an influencer—her business model is one-on-one coaching and enterprise-level corporate curriculum. That requires relationship building as its anchor.
The Intention Behind Your Outreach
Here's where most people fail at authentic connection: their intention is "let me get in there and sell something." Dora's approach? "Let me see if there's really a problem, and I wonder if I'm the right person to solve it. Will they let me talk about that with them?"
When your intention is genuine, people can tell. Some will still think you're selling. But others will say, "You've actually researched me. You're being authentic here. I'll give you 20 minutes."
Video for Connection, Not Marketing
Dora shows up consistently on LinkedIn, not following a content calendar or batch-creating reels, but spontaneously going live when she has something to say. She doesn't use social media for marketing; she uses it for connecting.
"I don't need to post reels constantly on Instagram because that's not my business model," she explains. But she did invest in a professional speaker reel and book trailer for the moments that require polished video, like corporate speaking opportunities.
The key: know what you need the video for, and match the production level to the purpose.
Making It Work: Dora's Business Principles
"Them First, You Second" One of Dora's early leaders ingrained this in her twenties, and it's guided every hire and client relationship since. When you sincerely put others first (not fake it), they work harder for you. It changes the entire dynamic.
Choose Your Clients In corporate, Dora had to be nice to everyone. Now? She gets to choose who she works with. That freedom to work only with people aligned to your mission is the best part of entrepreneurship.
No Walking on Eggshells When you're transparent about who you are and what your pet peeves are upfront, you can bring your whole self to every interaction. No compartmentalizing. No filtering. Just an authentic connection.
Take What You Need, Leave the Rest Whether it's AI, marketing tactics, or business advice, Dora takes what serves her purpose and leaves the rest. AI helps her create better prospecting scripts faster, but it doesn't replace the human connection at the heart of her work.
The 2026 Vision
Dora's next evolution: taking The Heart Sell curriculum into major companies filled with "bro marketers and bro sales people." Her brass ring? Banks led by women, her old stomping ground, where she knows exactly what personalities are coming up through the leadership tracks.
She's also hosting Camp Heart Sell retreats (luxury camping with fluffy robes, no suffering involved) and partnering on international retreats, teaching her curriculum in places like Iceland and France.
Bottom Line
There's a delay in the doubt. If you're waiting for permission to do business differently, to show up authentically, to fire the people who don't align with your mission, this is it. The moment of clarity means nothing without action.
Dora proves you can build a thriving business without the corporate filter, the bro tactics, or the hustle culture. But you have to actually take the leap.
Ready to rethink sales and marketing? Check out The Heart Sell or connect with Dora at dorarankin.com for a complimentary call. She's accessible, authentic, and worth your time.
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