It’s all over social media — the three-bite rule.

Influencers savoring desserts, pasta, and pastries with the claim “just three bites.” The message? You can eat anything you want… as long as you stop after bite number three. Stop - Done - Basta!

But what does that really teach us about food, choice, or control?

In this episode of 1,000 Waking Minutes, Dr. Wendy Bazilian weighs in on the trend, separating fact from fiction. .

Drawing on more than two decades of clinical experience and research in mindfulness and eating behavior, she explores why connection and awareness matters more than control.

You’ll hear what the science says about restraint, awareness, and emotional engagement around food experiences and Dr. Bazilian’s own three-bite ‘practice’- a mindfulness strategy she’s taught for over 20 years that is rooted in curiosity, presence, and joy at the table.

This shorter conversation is part of an occasional series where we unpack trending ideas and frequently asked questions with clarity, nuance, and credible science — all in service of helping you make the most of your 1,000 waking minutes each day.

FROM THE EPISODE

WE DISCUSS:

(00:00) Introduction and welcome to the episode

(2:51) What is the TikTok “Three-Bite Rule” and why it’s trending

(7:34) What science tells us about restraint, mindfulness, and emotion

(8:04) Three key studies

(13:29) Why flexibility beats rigid control — in food and in life

(17:11) Dr. Bazilian’s Three-Bite “Practice”

(22:34) How to apply the practice in daily life

(23:46) Reflection: choosing connection over control

(25:51) Closing thoughts

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HEALTH DISCLAIMER:

The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered individual medical or health advice. Always consult with your trusted healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise, or medical treatment.

RESEARCH & REFERENCES

Watson, P., & Le Pelley, M. E. (2021). A meta-analysis of the relationship between eating restraint, impaired cognitive control and cognitive bias to food in non-clinical samples. Clinical psychology review, 89, 102082. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cpr.2021.102082

Pepe, R. B., Coelho, G. S. de M. A., Miguel, F. da S., Gualassi, A. C., Sarvas, M. M., Cercato, C., … de Melo, M. E. (2023). Mindful eating for weight loss in women with obesity: a randomised controlled trial. British Journal of Nutrition, 130(5), 911–920. doi:10.1017/S0007114522003932 https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/british-journal-of-nutrition/article/mindful-eating-for-weight-loss-in-women-with-obesity-a-randomised-controlled-trial/FEBA9D60A940E6FC5C1FAD6D5C0B2E2F

Peitz, D., Warschburger, P. What Are You Hungry for? The 9 Hunger Mindful Eating Online Randomized Controlled Trial. Mindfulness 14, 2868–2879 (2023). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-023-02263-9