What if the key to leading others starts with how you lead yourself?

In this powerful episode of The Kind Leader Podcast, host Gino Degregori sits down with Valarie Sandjivy, adaptive leadership mentor and business coach, to unpack what modern leadership really looks like. Valarie reveals how true leadership begins from within and why emotional intelligence, authenticity, and soul care are now essential skills for impactful leaders.

Together, they explore the four pillars of effective leadership—self-leadership, leading others, emotional mastery, and soul care—and how these foundations help leaders thrive while inspiring their teams to do the same.

This episode is a must-listen for leaders who want to evolve with the times, create meaningful impact, and show up with purpose, presence, and power.

You’ll Discover:

• Why the journey to effective leadership begins with mastering yourself.

• How emotional intelligence is evolving into emotional mastery, and how to cultivate it.

• The truth about authentic leadership: it’s about being real, not being perfect.

• Why redefining success around purpose and fulfillment leads to greater impact.

• How to harmonize your personal and professional life for sustainable leadership.

Whether you're leading a team or looking to grow as a leader in your own life, Valarie’s insights will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

🎧 Tune in and learn how to lead with heart, presence, and strength.

🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:

✨ Learn more about Valarie Sandjivy and her work: www.ellips.us.com

🧭 Take Valerie’s Leadership Assessment Quiz: ellips.us.com/quiz

💼 Connect with Valarie on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/valeriesandjivy

📚 Book Recommendation from Valerie: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle – a guide to presence and spiritual clarity that has deeply influenced her leadership journey. Available on Amazon

Chapters:

00:00 – Why Adaptive Leadership Is the Future of Work 02:52 – What It Really Means to Be a Kind Leader 06:06 – How to Support Employee Growth Without Losing Yourself 08:58 – The First Pillar: Mastering Self-Leadership 12:01 – The Second Pillar: Leading Others Through Trust and Purpose 14:59 – The Third Pillar: Emotional Mastery as a Leadership Superpower 21:03 – The Fourth Pillar: Practicing Soul Care to Prevent Burnout 23:40 – Integrating the Four Pillars into Daily Leadership 25:24 – How to Apply Emotional Intelligence Across Your Team 27:31 – Rethinking Success: Purpose Over Performance 30:19 – Building a Leadership Style Rooted in Authenticity 36:15 – Why Human Connection Is Your Most Powerful Leadership Tool 39:11 – Mindfulness in Action: Self-Reflection and The Power of Now 41:20 – Simple Shifts to Accelerate Your Personal and Professional Growth