Summary:

Can love really be quantified? In this enlightening episode of Higher Density Living, Zoey Charif reveals how heartbreak and data led her to design the groundbreaking Love Formula. From spiritual growth to psychological clarity, discover how compatibility, self-love, and purpose can be measured and mastered. Tune in and transform your understanding of relationships through the lens of consciousness and calculated connection.

Overview:

What if your most painful breakup held the key to unlocking your highest potential in love? This episode explores that profound question through the eyes of Zoey Charif, an Afghan-born, Vancouver-raised analyst turned relationship alchemist. After enduring cycles of unhealed romantic patterns, Zoey transmuted her emotional pain into purpose by crafting the “Love Formula”—a method to assess compatibility based on values, traits, and emotional intelligence.

Jason Rigby and Zoey dive into how trauma, distorted self-worth, and cultural expectations can shape our relationship choices unconsciously. Zoey’s approach doesn’t eliminate emotion—it elevates it. Listeners will learn how to calculate their “Self Score,” identify top values, and consciously match with a partner whose score complements their own. From admiration as a foundation for love to understanding why purpose heals, this episode bridges the analytical and the ethereal, offering spiritual seekers a method to love wisely and fully.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 Introduction to Love and Self-Awareness
• 02:39 Personal Insights and Self-Discovery
• 05:30 The Love Formula Explained
• 08:25 Understanding Compatibility and Attraction
• 11:07 The Role of Purpose in Relationships
• 13:59 Navigating Emotions and Impulsivity
• 16:45 Mismatch Relationships and Their Consequences
• 19:26 Celebrating Success in Relationships
• 22:10 Addressing Insecurities and Communication
• 25:00 The Impact of Trauma on Self-Worth
• 27:22 Understanding Toxicity in Relationships
• 30:25 Identifying Imbalances in Partner Dynamics
• 33:00 The Role of Self-Confidence in Relationships
• 37:35 Exploring Personality Types in Relationships
• 43:10 The Importance of Boundaries
• 48:50 Recognizing Deceivers in Dating

Quotes:

• “You can admire your partner without losing yourself.” – Zoey Charif
• “Our emotions are primal. Our choices are divine.” – Jason Rigby
• “Love isn’t luck. It’s clarity, courage, and calculation.” – Zoey Charif

Takeaways:

• Self-awareness is crucial for healthy relationships.
• The Love Formula helps measure compatibility scientifically.
• Understanding personal values can improve relationship choices.
• Attraction should not overshadow compatibility in relationships.
• Purpose in life can enhance relationship satisfaction.
• Emotions can cloud judgment; clarity is essential.
• Mismatched values often lead to relationship breakdowns.
• Celebrating each other's successes strengthens bonds.
• Jealousy often stems from insecurity and low self-worth.
• Recognizing toxic patterns can prevent future heartache.

Resources:

• 📘 Book: Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated by Zoey Charif
• 🌐 Website: LoveCanInFactBeCalculated.com

Call To Action:

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