In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, teacher and mother Pauline Foo joins our host, June to explore the subtle yet powerful effects of comparison—especially between siblings. Drawing from her personal parenting journey and professional experience, Pauline shares how comparison can quietly shape a child’s identity, self-worth, and family dynamics.

Whether it’s comparing milestones, academic achievements, or personality traits, Pauline reveals how even well-meaning comparisons can lead children to choose different paths just to escape being measured against one another. She offers practical ways to shift from judgment to affirmation, helping parents foster deeper connection and compassion at home.

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