UNFILTERED: Courageous Conversations About The Cost Of Being In Control The Courage Of A Leader podcast

UNFILTERED: Courageous Conversations about The Cost of Being in Control

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We all want to do things well — to be responsible, stay on top of it, make sure nothing slips through the cracks. But when does that turn into control?

In this episode of UNFILTERED, Daphna Horowitz and Amy Riley get honest about the fine line between responsible leadership and the need to control everything. They unpack why leaders grip so tightly, what it costs in terms of energy, creativity, and trust, and how letting go can actually be a deeper form of wisdom.

Join Daphna and Amy for a raw, relatable conversation on hidden control, delegation of authority, and the courage it takes to loosen your grip without letting things fall apart.

Key Highlights

01:15 - The Illusion of Holding It All Together

03:15 - Hidden Control: Responsibility in Disguise

08:40 - The Bottleneck of Decision-Making

13:30 - The Illusion of Being ‘On Top of It’

17:45 - The Fear Beneath Control

22:00 - From Dependency to Capacity: The Real Leadership Shift

27:15 - Control Lives in the Body

30:30 - The Four Shifts: Transparency, Collaboration, Curiosity, Boundaries

34:15 - Moment of Stillness: Letting Go as Wisdom

Connect with Your Co-Hosts 

Daphna Horowitz 

www.daphnahorowitz.com  

https://www.linkedin.com/in/daphnahorowitz/  

https://www.facebook.com/PEACSolutions  

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/leadership-live/id1524072573  

Amy L. Riley 

http://www.courageofaleader.com  

https://www.linkedin.com/in/amyshoopriley  

https://courageofaleader.com/podcast/  

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