If you've ever felt like you need to have it all together before you can lead effectively, this episode is for you. No judgment here — we've all been there! In this candid conversation, we're sharing our own messy truths, from Jen's permanently grimy oven and abandoned Christmas card habit to Karen's perfectionism paralysis and lone wolf tendencies. This isn't just therapeutic oversharing — there's strategic value in recognizing where you fall short. When you stop apologizing for things that make you who you are and understand that your personal standards don't apply to everyone else, you free up mental energy for what actually matters. We explore how self-awareness translates to better leadership and more authentic connections. It's about working with your natural tendencies rather than against them and building systems that account for your actual human limitations. Because people don't follow perfect leaders — they follow authentic ones.