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The Comparison Trap: Working With Confidence in Your Calling

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Faithful on the Clock is a podcast with the mission of getting your work and faith aligned. We want you to understand Who you're serving and why so you can get more joy and legacy from every minute spent on the clock. Thanks for joining us and taking this step toward a more fulfilling job and relationship with God!

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The Comparison Trap: Working With Confidence in Your Calling

https://faithfulontheclock.captivate.fm/episode/the-comparison-trap-working-with-confidence-in-your-calling

Comparison can be a huge stumbling block as you try to serve God. Episode 128 of Faithful on the Clock explains the value of not comparing as you find and step into your calling.

Timestamps:

[00:04] - Intro

[00:41] - How our business environment and culture sets us up for comparison

[01:57] - How comparison functions as a measure of safety and security

[04:27] - Comparison distracts you from your calling. It makes you put value and attention on what doesn’t matter and doubt your own worth.

[05:00] - Joseph, Mary’s husband, as an example of someone who resisted comparison

[06:49] - The Bible shows that great things happen when you defy expectations. If you compare all the time, you prepare for what’s not even relevant.

[09:03] - David as an example who, instead of comparing himself to others, only compared the job to do to his previous experience

[10:59] - How to get clarity about your calling

[14:30] - Safety and security come from God

[15:01] - Prayer

[15:38] - Outro/What’s coming up next

Key takeaways:

  • Comparison can happen on multiple levels, such as within a culture and then within an industry. We often do it as a way to be reasonable in setting tasks and objectives.
  • On top of having a pragmatic purpose, comparison also helps us gauge our sense of safety. We compare to make sure we haven’t deviated too far from expected norms, which would harm our chances of survival. Going after wealth is a way to answer the question of safety and, if desired, gain the power to alter the norms that are in place.
  • Comparison is detrimental to us as Christians because it distracts us from the calling God has for us. It can cause us to devalue who we are and think we’re not capable of effective service.
  • Joseph, Mary’s husband, serves as an example of someone who went against norms to serve God. Many stories of the Bible show that good things happen when people are willing to stop comparing and respond to God in a way that defies worldly expectations.
  • The story of David and Goliath shows the confidence and success that can come when we focus on the training we have and the job to be done, rather than what the expectations of others are.
  • You can get clarity about your calling (which helps you stop comparing) by just asking God for direction. But it often comes as a “slow burn” of consistent signals that you’re headed in the right direction.
  • Security comes from trusting in God, not from adhering to or controlling the status quo. Focus on where God wants you to be instead of what other people do or have.

CTAs:

  • For the next week, try to pay more attention to what feels “warm” to you, as described in the show. It’s OK if nothing does — the goal is just to practice and try to improve awareness of whether the signal is present.

What’s coming up next:

Having a sense of belonging in a “tribe” is said to contribute heavily to mental health and overall wellbeing. Episode 129 of Faithful on the Clock explores the “tribe” concept as it applies to work.

Support the show!

Visit the Faithful on the Clock Patreon page to choose a tier plan and become a supporting member. You'll gain access to goodies like early episode access, newsletters, and more based on the plan that's right for you.

patreon.com/faithfulontheclock

Give a one-off tip or donation on our Captivate support page. You can become a member there with the same great tier options you'll find at Patreon, too.

Support Faithful on the Clock

Visit our sister site! Faithfulonthclock.com features additional free, free-with-registration, and paid access content to grow your faith, including

  • social media archives,
  • previously published faith-based articles,
  • original blogs,
  • inspirational videos,
  • episode teasers and replays
  • exclusive faith-based essays and articles,
  • exclusive videos
  • exclusive audio
  • exclusive in-depth devotionals.

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Faithful on the Clock is a podcast with the mission of getting your work and faith aligned. We want you to understand Who you're serving and why so you can get more joy and legacy from every minute spent on the clock. Thanks for joining us and taking this step toward a more fulfilling job and relationship with God!

Want to join us on social media?

We'd love to have you stay up-to-date with the show on all our platforms!

Threads

Bluesky

Facebook

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YouTube

In this episode...

The Comparison Trap: Working With Confidence in Your Calling

https://faithfulontheclock.captivate.fm/episode/the-comparison-trap-working-with-confidence-in-your-calling

Comparison can be a huge stumbling block as you try to serve God. Episode 128 of Faithful on the Clock explains the value of not comparing as you find and step into your calling.

Timestamps:

[00:04] - Intro

[00:41] - How our business environment and culture sets us up for comparison

[01:57] - How comparison functions as a measure of safety and security

[04:27] - Comparison distracts you from your calling. It makes you put value and attention on what doesn’t matter and doubt your own worth.

[05:00] - Joseph, Mary’s husband, as an example of someone who resisted comparison

[06:49] - The Bible shows that great things happen when you defy expectations. If you compare all the time, you prepare for what’s not even relevant.

[09:03] - David as an example who, instead of comparing himself to others, only compared the job to do to his previous experience

[10:59] - How to get clarity about your calling

[14:30] - Safety and security come from God

[15:01] - Prayer

[15:38] - Outro/What’s coming up next

Key takeaways:

  • Comparison can happen on multiple levels, such as within a culture and then within an industry. We often do it as a way to be reasonable in setting tasks and objectives.
  • On top of having a pragmatic purpose, comparison also helps us gauge our sense of safety. We compare to make sure we haven’t deviated too far from expected norms, which would harm our chances of survival. Going after wealth is a way to answer the question of safety and, if desired, gain the power to alter the norms that are in place.
  • Comparison is detrimental to us as Christians because it distracts us from the calling God has for us. It can cause us to devalue who we are and think we’re not capable of effective service.
  • Joseph, Mary’s husband, serves as an example of someone who went against norms to serve God. Many stories of the Bible show that good things happen when people are willing to stop comparing and respond to God in a way that defies worldly expectations.
  • The story of David and Goliath shows the confidence and success that can come when we focus on the training we have and the job to be done, rather than what the expectations of others are.
  • You can get clarity about your calling (which helps you stop comparing) by just asking God for direction. But it often comes as a “slow burn” of consistent signals that you’re headed in the right direction.
  • Security comes from trusting in God, not from adhering to or controlling the status quo. Focus on where God wants you to be instead of what other people do or have.

CTAs:

  • For the next week, try to pay more attention to what feels “warm” to you, as described in the show. It’s OK if nothing does — the goal is just to practice and try to improve awareness of whether the signal is present.

What’s coming up next:

Having a sense of belonging in a “tribe” is said to contribute heavily to mental health and overall wellbeing. Episode 129 of Faithful on the Clock explores the “tribe” concept as it applies to work.

Support the show!

Visit the Faithful on the Clock Patreon page to choose a tier plan and become a supporting member. You'll gain access to goodies like early episode access, newsletters, and more based on the plan that's right for you.

patreon.com/faithfulontheclock

Give a one-off tip or donation on our Captivate support page. You can become a member there with the same great tier options you'll find at Patreon, too.

Support Faithful on the Clock

Visit our sister site! Faithfulonthclock.com features additional free, free-with-registration, and paid access content to grow your faith, including

  • social media archives,
  • previously published faith-based articles,
  • original blogs,
  • inspirational videos,
  • episode teasers and replays
  • exclusive faith-based essays and articles,
  • exclusive videos
  • exclusive audio
  • exclusive in-depth devotionals.

Share the show! Like these episodes? Share them on social media, in texts or emails, or in person.

  continue reading

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