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Why You Get Defensive When You Hear “You’ve Hurt My Feelings”

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Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’?

In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal response and learn a simple but powerful reframe that can transform these vulnerable moments into opportunities for deeper intimacy. This insight completely changed how Shannon and I handle hurt feelings—and it will change your marriage too.

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Content provided by Paul & Shannon Elmore and Shannon Elmore. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Paul & Shannon Elmore and Shannon Elmore or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’?

In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal response and learn a simple but powerful reframe that can transform these vulnerable moments into opportunities for deeper intimacy. This insight completely changed how Shannon and I handle hurt feelings—and it will change your marriage too.

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