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How To Get My Partner To Stop Blaming Me And Get Them To Change

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“If only they would stop blaming me…”

In this episode, we go deep into one of the most painful loops couples get stuck in — blame, defense, and disconnection.

For years, we both thought the other person was the problem.
I wanted Adam to change.
He wanted me to stop overreacting.
And nothing ever changed.

The truth?
You cannot make your partner change.
But you can influence them — not through criticism or control, but through calm ownership and emotional safety.

“When I stopped pointing the finger and started leading with love and responsibility, everything changed.”

If you are tired of the same fights and ready to create real change in your relationship, this episode is for you.

Save this for when you feel stuck.
Share it with someone who needs to hear it.

Full episode: How To Get My Partner To Stop Blaming Me And Get Them To Change is live now. Link in bio.

#MarriageTips #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipGrowth #CommunicationTools #EmotionalConnection #MarriageTalk #RealMarriageMoments #RelationshipStruggles #TruthBomb #RealTalk #WorkingOnUs #SaveMyMarriage #SaveMyMarriagePodcast

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Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

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Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

Listen to all episodes on Audio:

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Watch all episodes on YouTube:

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Support the Show
If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

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Content provided by Aston and Adam Simmonds and Adam Simmonds. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Aston and Adam Simmonds and Adam Simmonds or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

To find out about working together:
1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds)
2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details

“If only they would stop blaming me…”

In this episode, we go deep into one of the most painful loops couples get stuck in — blame, defense, and disconnection.

For years, we both thought the other person was the problem.
I wanted Adam to change.
He wanted me to stop overreacting.
And nothing ever changed.

The truth?
You cannot make your partner change.
But you can influence them — not through criticism or control, but through calm ownership and emotional safety.

“When I stopped pointing the finger and started leading with love and responsibility, everything changed.”

If you are tired of the same fights and ready to create real change in your relationship, this episode is for you.

Save this for when you feel stuck.
Share it with someone who needs to hear it.

Full episode: How To Get My Partner To Stop Blaming Me And Get Them To Change is live now. Link in bio.

#MarriageTips #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipGrowth #CommunicationTools #EmotionalConnection #MarriageTalk #RealMarriageMoments #RelationshipStruggles #TruthBomb #RealTalk #WorkingOnUs #SaveMyMarriage #SaveMyMarriagePodcast

Work With Us
Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

Free Resources:

Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

Listen to all episodes on Audio:

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

Watch all episodes on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

Support the Show
If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

  continue reading

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