There are roles you inherit before you can even speak — and then there are roles you keep long after they’ve begun to strangle you. The ones that dictate who you’re allowed to be. The ones you didn’t choose, but were cast in the moment you arrived. The ones that keep you bound to a story called “family,” even when the script is outdated, suffocating, or written by someone else entirely.

This episode isn’t about rejecting family for the sake of rebellion. It’s about breaking the unconscious contract that says love means obedience, that loyalty is more important than individuality, and that proximity is the same thing as care. We’re here to walk into the shadow of the family construct — blood, chosen, and soul — to see how it shapes, confines, and sometimes distorts the self. From patriarchal inheritance to soul-level agreements, from dinner table politics to the invisible cords that keep you tethered, Daniel and Elinor open the door to one of the most loaded truths we ever face: your family is not always your home.

Whether you’ve been the obedient daughter, the provider son, the peacekeeper, or the exile, this conversation is for anyone who’s felt the dissonance between who their family needs them to be and who they truly are. A space to ask the forbidden questions — and to imagine what love could look like without the role you were cast in.

Together, we ask: – What if the role you were given is the very thing keeping you from your soul’s purpose? – What if family loyalty is sometimes the mask of control? – And what if your truest family has yet to be found?

In this episode: – How patriarchal models of family suppress individuation – The shadow roles we inherit: obedient child, provider, peacekeeper, and more – Personal stories of growing up in frozen homes, religious rules, and unspoken contracts – How lineage trauma and ancestral vows shape the family dynamic for generations – Soul families: what they are, how they find us, and why they’re not always easy – The unseen cords that bind you to family — and how to begin untethering – Reframing family through conscious choice, boundaries, and resonance

Hosts: Daniel Darman & Elinor Moshe Speakers: Daniel Darman & Elinor Moshe Produced by: Truth of You Copyright: © 2025 Truth of You Website: truthofyou.com.au Instagram: @theelinormoshe & @thedanieldarman