How to Get the Perfect Relationship?

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Inspired by Jay Shetty

We can create a great relationship when we ask the right questions. Forget the fantasy of finding a “perfect partner.” A relationship’s quality depends on what we make of it.

When dating, we should enjoy ourselves and ask meaningful questions to understand what the other person wants.

0. Why Ask the Scary Questions?

If you’re afraid to ask hard questions, deep down you might already know the answer. Avoiding the truth only delays the pain — and it will always backfire.

We often live in lies, and that keeps us from moving forward.

A healthy relationship is not only about chemistry — it’s about clarity.

If you want real connection, you need real conversations.

People who hide from uncomfortable topics often face a bigger crash when the truth comes out. In my experience, speaking honestly reveals true friends, and those who don’t belong will leave — saving time and energy.

If you change yourself just to fit in with people who aren’t right for you, it isolates you, damages your well-being, and can lead to deep despair. Rejection is scary, but pretending is worse.

1. What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like for You?

A healthy relationship:

Gives you space to grow (unhealthy: forces you to shrink to fit)

Holds you through hard times (unhealthy: makes you feel like a burden)

Brings you peace (unhealthy: keeps you addicted to chaos)

Challenges you with kindness (unhealthy: criticizes you into silence)

Helps you trust your voice (unhealthy: makes you doubt it)

Reminds you of your worth (unhealthy: makes you fight to prove it)

Ask: What are your terms and conditions for a healthy relationship?

Even better, explore their family relationship patterns — these often shape how they love.

2. What Does Commitment Mean for You?

Wishful thinking doesn’t create a healthy relationship. Commitment does.

Commitment is:

Showing up on boring days

Talking things out instead of running away

Feeling safe, even when you disagree

Accepting differences without disrespect

Knowing you’re valued, even on your worst day

Respecting each other’s space while staying connected

Choosing each other again and again, not just when it’s easy

This conversation isn’t about forcing commitment immediately — it’s about understanding values before a crisis.

3. How Do You Handle Conflict?

Do you:

A. Take time to process? (Hiding)

B. Want to solve it immediately? (Venting)

C. Explode emotionally? (Exploding)

Healthy couples address conflicts early and calmly — not through avoidance, disrespect, or fighting.

Ask: What are your long-term intentions? Are we going in the same direction?

4. What Does Emotional Availability Mean to You?

Are you emotionally open and vulnerable with your partner? Can they handle it?

Emotionally available people share and respect emotions.

Emotionally unavailable people hide feelings, punish honesty, or block connection.

If your partner can’t sit with your emotions, the relationship’s depth will be limited.

5. How Do You Recharge — Alone or With People?

Introverts often recharge alone.

Extroverts recharge through social interaction.

Knowing this prevents misunderstandings when one person needs space and the other wants connection.

Ask: What helps you during stress — space, talking, or distraction?

6. What Does Being Ready for a Relationship Mean to You?

Readiness often means:

Emotional healing

Financial stability

Clarity on what you want

You can’t force a casual relationship into a committed one if the other person doesn’t want it.

7. What Does Independence Look Like in a Relationship?

Some feel safe with space, others with closeness.

Independence is about boundaries — and boundaries build security, not distance.

8. What Are You Still Healing From?

Deep, healthy relationships require emotional work and often therapy. Without it, many people can’t truly be emotionally available.

Final Thought

If you want a lasting, meaningful relationship, you must:

Ask real questions early

Keep your heart open

Work through your own traumas

Practice honesty, even when uncomfortable

Without this, the relationship will stay on the surface — and surface connections break easily in hard times.

My Video: How to Get the Perfect Relationship? https://youtu.be/K9WIi04UiQM

My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Get-the-Perfect-Relationship.mp3

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