What you’ll learn in this episode:

✅ He wants to feel like your hero—but only if it aligns with who he already is.

✅ Respect doesn’t mean obedience; it means emotional safety without competition.

✅ He needs to feel accepted, not evaluated—especially for things he can’t change.

✅ Saying “no” builds trust by showing him where you stand (and what you value).

✅ When a man feels safe to disappoint you without punishment, connection deepens.

Chapters

00:00 – What men say they want vs. what they really mean

02:12 – Why turning 40 changes how he approaches love

05:10 – The one feeling that makes him think, “She gets me”

09:08 – What respect sounds like (and why it matters more than love)

14:36 – How your “no” builds more attraction than your “yes”

19:50 – The quiet shift that makes him want forever

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