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Blame, Shame, and the Guilt Game

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The Refrigerator Moms podcast relaunches with this first episode. Julianna Scott and Kelley Jensen dive deep into the pervasive issue of mom guilt that plagues autism parents. Drawing from their 20+ year friendship and experience raising autistic children, they debunk the harmful "Refrigerator Mother Theory" while offering practical strategies for managing guilt and prioritizing self-care. The duo shares personal stories, actionable advice, and evidence-based approaches to help parents move from self-blame to self-compassion. They emphasize the importance of taking care of yourself, setting boundaries, and making decisions based on your family's unique needs rather than outside pressure.

Key Takeaways

  • Mom guilt is universal but particularly intense for autism parents - you're not alone
  • The "Refrigerator Mother Theory" was debunked decades ago - autism is not caused by parenting
  • Self-care isn't selfish - it's necessary for sustainable caregiving
  • Don't make yourself indispensable - teach independence gradually
  • Focus on your family's needs, not social media comparisons
  • Early intervention and diagnosis provide long-term benefits for both child and family
  • Seek reliable childcare and support systems - keep trying even when it's difficult
  • Treat yourself with the same kindness you'd show a friend
  • Avoid negative self-talk and punishment-based approaches

πŸ”— Learn More:
Website: refrigeratormoms.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refrigeratormoms/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/refrigeratormoms
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refrigeratormoms/

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Manage episode 494764247 series 3676729
Content provided by Kelley Jensen, Julianna Scott, Kelley Jensen, and Julianna Scott. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Kelley Jensen, Julianna Scott, Kelley Jensen, and Julianna Scott or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

The Refrigerator Moms podcast relaunches with this first episode. Julianna Scott and Kelley Jensen dive deep into the pervasive issue of mom guilt that plagues autism parents. Drawing from their 20+ year friendship and experience raising autistic children, they debunk the harmful "Refrigerator Mother Theory" while offering practical strategies for managing guilt and prioritizing self-care. The duo shares personal stories, actionable advice, and evidence-based approaches to help parents move from self-blame to self-compassion. They emphasize the importance of taking care of yourself, setting boundaries, and making decisions based on your family's unique needs rather than outside pressure.

Key Takeaways

  • Mom guilt is universal but particularly intense for autism parents - you're not alone
  • The "Refrigerator Mother Theory" was debunked decades ago - autism is not caused by parenting
  • Self-care isn't selfish - it's necessary for sustainable caregiving
  • Don't make yourself indispensable - teach independence gradually
  • Focus on your family's needs, not social media comparisons
  • Early intervention and diagnosis provide long-term benefits for both child and family
  • Seek reliable childcare and support systems - keep trying even when it's difficult
  • Treat yourself with the same kindness you'd show a friend
  • Avoid negative self-talk and punishment-based approaches

πŸ”— Learn More:
Website: refrigeratormoms.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refrigeratormoms/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/refrigeratormoms
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refrigeratormoms/

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