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Narcissistic Mirroring Uncovered: The Performance of Connection

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Content provided by Dr. Eric Perry, PhD and Dr. Eric Perry. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Dr. Eric Perry, PhD and Dr. Eric Perry or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the complex and often misunderstood phenomenon of mirroring in narcissistic relationships. This episode dives into how mirroring can create the illusion of deep connection—while quietly eroding authenticity, trust, and emotional intimacy.

Dr. Perry unpacks the psychological roots of mirroring, tracing it from early childhood development to its manipulative adaptation in adulthood. He explains how individuals with narcissistic tendencies often use mirroring—consciously or unconsciously—as a way to build connection, avoid rejection, and emotionally survive within relationships.

Listeners will learn about:

  • The origins of mirroring and how it forms in childhood

  • How narcissistic individuals use mirroring to create rapid emotional closeness

  • Why mirroring feels like connection at first—but leads to disconnection over time

  • The emotional toll of being mirrored instead of truly seen

  • Practical steps to recognize mirroring patterns and rebuild real, honest connection

Dr. Perry offers clear and compassionate guidance for those who find themselves stuck in cycles of performative connection. Whether you have used mirroring to feel accepted or have been on the receiving end of it, this episode provides insight, validation, and a path forward.

Tune in to discover how moving from imitation to authenticity can heal your relationships—from shallow and performative to grounded and real. Through honest self-reflection and small acts of vulnerability, true intimacy becomes possible—not by becoming who someone wants you to be, but by becoming more fully yourself.

Connect with Dr. Perry: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Own Your Stuff Online Coaching Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com/ownyourstuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Empathy Awakening Workshop: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com/empathyawakening⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Disclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.

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Content provided by Dr. Eric Perry, PhD and Dr. Eric Perry. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Dr. Eric Perry, PhD and Dr. Eric Perry or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the complex and often misunderstood phenomenon of mirroring in narcissistic relationships. This episode dives into how mirroring can create the illusion of deep connection—while quietly eroding authenticity, trust, and emotional intimacy.

Dr. Perry unpacks the psychological roots of mirroring, tracing it from early childhood development to its manipulative adaptation in adulthood. He explains how individuals with narcissistic tendencies often use mirroring—consciously or unconsciously—as a way to build connection, avoid rejection, and emotionally survive within relationships.

Listeners will learn about:

  • The origins of mirroring and how it forms in childhood

  • How narcissistic individuals use mirroring to create rapid emotional closeness

  • Why mirroring feels like connection at first—but leads to disconnection over time

  • The emotional toll of being mirrored instead of truly seen

  • Practical steps to recognize mirroring patterns and rebuild real, honest connection

Dr. Perry offers clear and compassionate guidance for those who find themselves stuck in cycles of performative connection. Whether you have used mirroring to feel accepted or have been on the receiving end of it, this episode provides insight, validation, and a path forward.

Tune in to discover how moving from imitation to authenticity can heal your relationships—from shallow and performative to grounded and real. Through honest self-reflection and small acts of vulnerability, true intimacy becomes possible—not by becoming who someone wants you to be, but by becoming more fully yourself.

Connect with Dr. Perry: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Own Your Stuff Online Coaching Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com/ownyourstuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Empathy Awakening Workshop: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com/empathyawakening⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Disclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.

  continue reading

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