Arnold dives deep into the biblical truth found in Proverbs 24:3: “By wisdom a house is built.” But this conversation goes far beyond bricks and mortar. It's about how wisdom builds lasting financial peace, emotional stability, spiritual strength and generational security. Whether you're rebuilding from scratch or wondering why your life keeps feeling unstable, this episode is your blueprint for building a life that doesn't crumble under pressure. If you've been feeling like you're constantly starting over — in your money, marriage, business, or spiritual walk — this one’s for you. It's time to move beyond vibes and good intentions and start building with wisdom. Key Discussion Points 00:08 – Why life keeps feeling like constant rebuilding 02:29 – The biblical foundation: “By wisdom a house is built” 03:10 – The lie of hustle culture vs. the truth of strategic wisdom 05:22 – What kind of “house” are you really building? 07:42 – Living like renters vs. building like owners 09:52 – Why your efforts keep collapsing: lack of blueprint, not effort 10:51 – Wisdom is skillful living, not just head knowledge 13:07 – What it costs to build well in life, finances, relationships, and purpose 14:27 – Wisdom costs less than the price of regret 15:41 – Understanding: the key to building something that lasts 19:34 – The danger of building without foundations 21:40 – Real-life examples of houses we inherited but need to rebuild 24:03 – The hidden power of digging deep before building up 26:05 – Wisdom in finances, relationships, careers, and spiritual life 33:16 – What’s tearing your house down? Voices of noise: urgency, ego, culture, distraction 39:34 – Reclaiming wisdom: asking God and quieting the noise 40:19 – Coming next: Sharpening your tools – working smarter not harder Highlights From The Episode Wisdom isn’t a vibe—it’s a strategy. It builds homes, strengthens relationships, stabilises finances and shapes legacy. You don’t need more effort, just sharper tools (Ecclesiastes 10:10). Rental mindsets don’t produce ownership outcomes. Tenants wait for peace—owners build it. Storms come, but damage isn’t inevitable (Matthew 7). Lasting impact requires depth, not just construction. Your struggle might be a season of digging— Wisdom starts underground, clearing trauma, ego and inherited dysfunction. Practical Steps You Can Take · Audit your finances: Review your last three months of spending. Create a budget and address debt. See Proverbs 21:5. · Rethink your relationships: Are they rooted in truth and tested under pressure? · Stop chasing titles—build skills: Focus on excellence now; let God open doors in His time. · Slow down spiritually: Reconnect with reverence. Let the fear of the Lord be your foundation (Proverbs 9:10). · Silence the noise: Temporarily log off social media. Let your mind be still enough to hear wisdom again. · Start rebuilding: Whether you inherited broken patterns or just got distracted, wisdom and understanding allow you to rebuild stronger than before. Relevant Themes Covered Biblical wisdom and personal transformation Faith-based financial stewardship Emotional and spiritual resilience Building generational legacy Rejecting hustle culture for holy strategy Identifying and overcoming the lies of urgency, ego, distraction, and comparison Applying Proverbs and Jesus’ teachings practically Connect with RTB For podcast updates, exclusive daily devotional emails and more, join the RTB community! Sign up here: www.reasontobehold.com Got a question or want to share your thoughts and reflections from the episode? We’d love to hear from you! Contact us:[email protected]