00:01 – Correction as Wisdom Proverbs 12:1: Why correction feels like attack but leads to growth—spiritually, relationally, financially. 02:10 – Correction = Love & Belonging Hebrews 12:5–6; Proverbs 3:11–12; Revelation 3:19: Discipline shows love; reproof affirms sonship. 05:05 – Punishment vs Discipline Punishment looks back; discipline looks forward. John 15:2: Pruning reveals potential. 07:12 – Resistance to Reproof Pride, pain, and threat response. Hebrews 12:11: “Later” fruit comes from being “trained.” 08:28 – R-E-S-T Framework 11:30 – Biblical Models of Correction David/Nathan (2 Sam 12), Apollos (Acts 18), Peter/Paul (Gal 2): All rooted in love and truth. 12:55 – Signs of Maturity Invite feedback, thank correctors, self-correct. “Immaturity hears condemnation; maturity hears calibration.” 13:54 – Nightly Rhythm Confess, Consider, Commit, Cover. Anchored in Proverbs 9:9. 15:36 – Discernment: 5 Tests 22:35 – Quick Filter Is it Word-aligned, freeing, Christlike, from loving voices, Spirit-confirmed? 23:43 – Growth Posture: 6 Practices 24:14 Humility (Prov 11:2) 26:13 Identity ≠ performance (Isa 6; Prov 12:1) 29:34 Learner’s ear + 24hr pause (James 1:19) 30:18 Build correcting circle (Prov 27:6) 32:29 Thank God + apply fast (Prov 3:11–12; James 1:22) 34:25 – Cost of Ignoring Correction 39:30 – Weekly Challenge Name one resisted area, ask for grace, act fast (Prov 15:32). 40:28 – Next Episode Teaser Diligence vs haste (Prov 21:5): Planning as wisdom. 42:12 – Share It Forward Subscribe, share, and help others avoid unnecessary frustration. — — — — — — — — — — Highlights From The Episode Correction is covenant love, not cancellation. God’s discipline is proof you belong to Him. Pruning is for fruitful branches. If you’re being trimmed, it’s because there’s more in you. R-E-S-T reframes reproof. A short, repeatable response prevents defensiveness from driving the moment. Calibration over condemnation. Mature hearts convert hard feedback into precise adjustments. Discernment matters. Use fruit, tone, Scripture, proximity and the Spirit’s witness to sift truth from manipulation. Delay dulls the edge. Quick obedience compounds; wisdom grows where humility lives. Ignoring correction is costly—spiritually, financially, relationally and generationally. — — — — — — — — — — Practical Steps You Can Take Adopt the R-E-S-T response the next time feedback lands. Use: “Thanks for sharing—give me a moment to hear you properly.” Mine for the 5–10% truth even if delivery was clumsy; write that truth down and plan one next step. Run it through the 5 tests (fruit, tone, Scripture, proximity, Spirit). Keep Galatians 6:1 and James 3:17 nearby. Create gentle accountability: text one safe person your one change for tomorrow and ask them to check in at night. Nightly rhythm (3–5 minutes): Confess, Consider, Commit, Cover (message a safe person). Identity reset: When corrected, say aloud, “My worth is secure in Christ; this is calibration, not condemnation.” 24-hour pause rule: No defending or decisions for a day after tough feedback—pray, search Scripture, then act. Act fast, act small: One micro-obedience within 24 hours (apology, budget tweak, calendar block, restitution). Invite feedback on purpose: Ask two trusted people, “What’s one blind spot you see in me this month?” Connect with RTB For podcast updates, exclusive daily devotional emails and more, join the RTB community! Sign up here: www.reasontobehold.com Got a question or want to share your thoughts and reflections from the episode? We’d love to hear from you! Contact us: [email protected]