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How to Stop Overthinking Your Boundaries

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You finally set the boundary. But instead of feeling peace, you feel anxious. Guilty. Exhausted. Overthinking every interaction and second-guessing your decision.

In this episode, host Chris Oh shares a personal story and walk you through what actually happens emotionally after setting boundaries, the part few people talk about.

You’ll learn:

  • Why your nervous system still feels activated even after doing "the right thing"
  • How guilt, anxiety, and people-pleasing tendencies get activated post-boundary
  • Why boundary-setting often leads to emotional labor long after the conversation is over
  • How to stop overthinking and start feeling confident in your standards
  • My personal 4-step emotional reset framework to manage boundary anxiety

If you’ve ever struggled with:

  • Fear of being "too much" or "too selfish"
  • Worrying how others will react to your boundaries
  • Feeling emotionally exhausted trying to manage others' feelings

...this episode will give you the language, insight, and tools to hold your boundaries with confidence and emotional peace.

🎯 DOWNLOAD my free Standards vs. Expectations Self-Reflection Worksheet — the first step to get clear on your personal standards (vs expectations that often lead to frustration and disappointment):
👉 https://stan.store/psyoungerself

Learn more about P.S. Younger Self here.
And, you can connect with host Chris Oh on Instagram here.

  continue reading

118 episodes

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Manage episode 489164515 series 2892164
Content provided by Chris Oh. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Chris Oh or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

You finally set the boundary. But instead of feeling peace, you feel anxious. Guilty. Exhausted. Overthinking every interaction and second-guessing your decision.

In this episode, host Chris Oh shares a personal story and walk you through what actually happens emotionally after setting boundaries, the part few people talk about.

You’ll learn:

  • Why your nervous system still feels activated even after doing "the right thing"
  • How guilt, anxiety, and people-pleasing tendencies get activated post-boundary
  • Why boundary-setting often leads to emotional labor long after the conversation is over
  • How to stop overthinking and start feeling confident in your standards
  • My personal 4-step emotional reset framework to manage boundary anxiety

If you’ve ever struggled with:

  • Fear of being "too much" or "too selfish"
  • Worrying how others will react to your boundaries
  • Feeling emotionally exhausted trying to manage others' feelings

...this episode will give you the language, insight, and tools to hold your boundaries with confidence and emotional peace.

🎯 DOWNLOAD my free Standards vs. Expectations Self-Reflection Worksheet — the first step to get clear on your personal standards (vs expectations that often lead to frustration and disappointment):
👉 https://stan.store/psyoungerself

Learn more about P.S. Younger Self here.
And, you can connect with host Chris Oh on Instagram here.

  continue reading

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