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If your doctor says the plumbing works but you still can’t stay hard, it’s time to stop blaming your body—and start listening to it. This episode isn’t just about ED. It’s about dissociation, shame, and the silent ways your nervous system speaks when your mind won’t.

Enrique breaks down the psychodynamic truth about erectile dysfunction: it’s not a failure to perform, it’s a failure to symbolize. When you’re stuck in performative masculinity, unresolved mother-wounding, or chasing validation from checked-out partners, your system pulls the plug.

We pull from the clinical wisdom of Donald Nathanson, Joyce McDougall, and David Schnarch to expose why real masculinity isn’t about angles or dominance—it’s about integration and direction.

Because maybe the softest part of you… is the most honest part of you. elevate.epo