In this episode, I’m joined by the radiant Alexandra Shelly — a modern medium, intuitive mentor, Reiki healer, and death doula — for a heart-opening and soul-stirring conversation.

Alex shares how she transitioned from agency copywriter to full-time intuitive practitioner, and how the death of her uncle initiated her powerful calling to become a death doula. We talk about what it means to work with spirit in a grounded, ethical way — and why death, grief, and big emotions aren’t things to be feared, but sacred portals for transformation.

This one is raw, wise, and surprisingly joyful.

We cover:

• Alex’s first intuitive experiences — and the moment she knew she was a medium
• What being a death doula really means (and why it supports the living too)
• How to feel safe in your body when you’re processing deep emotion
• Sex magic, embodiment, and feeling your full range without shame
• Why radical compassion literally rewires your brain and unlocks your intuition
• How Alex weaves mediumship, Reiki, and mentorship into powerful healing containers
• The truth about “bad energy” and why spiritual sovereignty matters

• Website: themodernmedium.com
• Instagram: @themodernmedium_

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• Ep 8: Human Design Centers & How to Work with Your Definition

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