We feature certified EFT therapist and LPC supervisor, Charisse Ferrer, who explores the vital role of the "self of the therapist" and Emotionally Focused Therapy especially for therapists of color. Drawing on her experience as a Filipino therapist, Charisse discusses how integrating her cultural identity enhances attunement and prevents the replication of past dismissals in therapy. She introduces the concept of "disowned parts"—aspects of oneself that have been pushed away—and emphasizes that therapists must acknowledge their own to create a safe space for clients. The conversation highlights the unique challenges and strengths of therapists of color when working with diverse couples, underscoring the importance of therapists being fully present and authentic to foster genuine connection and facilitate rupture and repair.

Charisse Ferrer’s Contact:

Website - https://bridgeandhaven.com/

Email - [email protected]

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/bridgeandhaven

Resources:

Asian American History 1on1 - A history of Filipino Nurses

A comprehensive meta-analysis on the efficacy of emotionally focused couple therapy - https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fcfp0000233

Continuing Education Courses at The Multicultural Counseling Institute - https://www.tmcinstitute.org/continuing-education/recorded-webinars

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Music Samples:

Intro 1 by Folk Acoustic - The Beat of Nature

Intro 2 by Mikhail Smusev - Heroic Quest
Outro by Alex Kizenkov - Inspirational Cinematic Adventure