Writer, comedian, and storyteller Carly Ann Philbin takes us on a journey through her creative process, revealing how she navigates the complex terrain between performance and writing. With refreshing candor, she shares her experiences self-publishing her memoir "Tears of a Blonde" after realizing traditional publishing timelines wouldn't align with her life circumstances.
"I have dreams of fame and glory, but I don't need it," Carly confesses, perfectly capturing the spirit of creative independence that drives many artists. Her illuminating Play-Doh analogy brilliantly explains how we all contain multitudes but must focus certain aspects of ourselves for storytelling: "We're all juxtapositions... a persona is like a machine. All the contents you want to talk about, you put through this machine... and it comes out with a strong voice." This framework offers listeners valuable insight into developing an authentic voice while crafting compelling narratives.
The conversation takes unexpected turns as we explore the challenges of dating in New York ("I wonder if we say it's hard to date in New York, but really it's hard to date men"), the limitations of therapy and meditation for creative people, and the profound lessons we learn from our pets. Carly's vulnerability when discussing how her dog Saturday has become both her child and a vehicle for reparenting herself creates a deeply moving moment of connection.
Discover Carly's "Written in Brooklyn" storytelling workshop, where she helps others transform life experiences into narratives for both page and stage. Whether you're a writer, performer, or simply someone navigating life's complexities, this episode offers wisdom on finding your voice and sharing your unique story with the world. Follow Carly's journey and find your own creative independence beyond the gatekeepers.

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