Description:

People pleasing isn’t kindness — it’s often a slow drain on your calling, your health, and your walk with God. In this episode, Jim unpacks the psychology behind approval addiction, the biblical truth about boundaries, and why saying “no” might be the most spiritual word in your vocabulary.

You’ll discover how to protect your alignment, break free from chains of constant “yes,” and move from earning love to living loved — so you can step fully into the purpose God designed for you.

Key Insights:

• The Psychology of People Pleasing: How it’s rooted in childhood patterns, trauma, and low self-worth.
• The Spiritual Perspective: God says “no” to protect and redirect; Jesus modeled healthy boundaries.
• The Cost: Mental, physical, and spiritual burnout when your “yes” isn’t aligned.
• The Yuck Factor: Why discomfort when saying no is a sign of growth.
• From Earning Love to Living Loved: Shifting your motivation from seeking approval to fulfilling your calling.

Faith Connection:

Boundaries are a biblical principle. Colossians 3:23 reminds us to work “as for the Lord, not for human masters.” This episode encourages listeners to put God’s approval above all else, making “no” an act of obedience.

For Multipassionate Creators:

If you’re an author, speaker, coach, or content creator juggling opportunities, this episode will help you discern which “yeses” are truly yours to carry — and which “nos” will set you free to do your best Kingdom work.

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

• Romans 8:1
• 2nd Corinthians 12:7-10
• Deuteronomy 3:23-27
• Mark 1:35-38
• Colossians 3:23-24

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