We've studied about and are familiar with the idea "die to oneself to win others to Christ" but are we aware just like in Paul's time - people are examining our lives to see if they match up with what we preach and teach. Are we really being the Christians we say we are? Fellow believers certainly watch as well. As a good indicator, do our wives, kids and grandkids see us reading the bible, teaching the bible, praying and actively participating in the family of God?