In this week’s episode, I’m joined by my husband, David, for an honest conversation about what 25 years of marriage, and a whole lot of nervous-system learning, have taught us about love, communication, and repair.

We talk about how silence once showed up as protection in our relationship, what it took to find our way back to safety, and how learning to regulate ourselves has changed the way we connect.

You’ll hear us reflect on:

• How inherited patterns of silence and stress shaped our early years together
• The shift from trying to fix each other to learning to self-regulate first
• What nervous-system awareness looks like in real-life partnership and repair
• Why safety isn’t the absence of conflict — it’s the ability to come back to connection.

Every relationship is really just two nervous systems learning how to feel safe together. When we stop waiting for the other person to go first and begin regulating ourselves, we open the door for love, repair, and legacy repair to unfold in real time.

If you haven’t yet, download your free Mini NeuroHeir Survival Map, a simple visual guide to help you understand your body’s safety patterns and begin practicing regulation.

👉 Download the free Survival Map here: https://leannahunt.com/neuroheir-survival-response-map/

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Disclaimer:
Although I am a licensed Associate Clinical Mental Health Counselor, The NeuroHeir℠ Podcast is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. The tools and practices I share are for educational and coaching purposes only. Every nervous system is unique, and what we discuss on this podcast should not replace your own individual therapeutic work or professional support.

The focus of this podcast is my coaching work, which centers on education, nervous system practices, and generational healing tools designed to support—not replace—your personal journey with a qualified provider.

If you are struggling with your mental health or experiencing overwhelming emotions, please seek support from a licensed professional in your area. You don’t have to do this work alone.