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Why We Perform in Relationships

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What if the safety you feel isn’t real—but a role you’re playing? In this reflective and honest conversation, Theresa and Walker explore how self worth, safety, and identity intersect in relationships at work, at home, and within ourselves.

They unpack how the roles we adopt—especially in professional or intimate settings—can protect us, but also keep us from feeling truly seen. This episode invites you to examine the masks you wear, the stories you tell yourself, and how increased awareness can lead to a more authentic and aligned connection.

What You’ll Learn

  • How performative behaviors shape our relationships
  • Why “feeling safe” can sometimes be a false sense of security
  • What congruence and authenticity actually look like in everyday life

Episode Links & Resources

Mandy Froehlich website

EMERGE – Soul Purpose Branding

Take the Relationship Assessment

Join us in the 10 Essential Skills to Build Stronger and Healthier Relationships ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Spotify Chapters

00:00 Welcome + Setting the Stage

02:05 Why We Feel Safer in Some Roles

10:17 How Intimacy Can Feel Less Safe

16:13 The Cost of Performing at Work

30:02 Clothing, Congruence, and Intentionality

46:48 Final Reflections on Self-Worth

Keywords

self worth, emotional safety, authentic relationships, performative behavior, identity in relationships, congruence

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103 episodes

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What if the safety you feel isn’t real—but a role you’re playing? In this reflective and honest conversation, Theresa and Walker explore how self worth, safety, and identity intersect in relationships at work, at home, and within ourselves.

They unpack how the roles we adopt—especially in professional or intimate settings—can protect us, but also keep us from feeling truly seen. This episode invites you to examine the masks you wear, the stories you tell yourself, and how increased awareness can lead to a more authentic and aligned connection.

What You’ll Learn

  • How performative behaviors shape our relationships
  • Why “feeling safe” can sometimes be a false sense of security
  • What congruence and authenticity actually look like in everyday life

Episode Links & Resources

Mandy Froehlich website

EMERGE – Soul Purpose Branding

Take the Relationship Assessment

Join us in the 10 Essential Skills to Build Stronger and Healthier Relationships ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Watch the episode on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Softening Into Courage ⁠⁠Meditation⁠⁠

Release & Integration ⁠⁠Meditation⁠⁠

My Inner Knowing Full episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Inner Knowing website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Spotify Chapters

00:00 Welcome + Setting the Stage

02:05 Why We Feel Safer in Some Roles

10:17 How Intimacy Can Feel Less Safe

16:13 The Cost of Performing at Work

30:02 Clothing, Congruence, and Intentionality

46:48 Final Reflections on Self-Worth

Keywords

self worth, emotional safety, authentic relationships, performative behavior, identity in relationships, congruence

  continue reading

103 episodes

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