In this episode, we're diving deep into why so many people feel smart about money but still struggle financially and more importantly, how to break free from that cycle. I sit down with Doug Lynam, a former Benedictine monk turned money manager, who brings a unique perspective on wealth, mindset, and what he calls our "money monsters." Doug shares how our childhood wounds and personality types shape our financial behaviors, often keeping us trapped in unhealthy patterns. We explore whether it's the financial system that keeps us stuck or our own mindset, and Doug offers practical steps to start taking control. This conversation is packed with insights about recognizing when you're stuck, understanding money as a tool rather than something to fear or worship, and finding your financial calling. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right but still not getting ahead, this episode is for you.

💰 Money Talking Points

1. How does avoiding money talks keep us poor?
2. How can talking about money be so beneficial?
3. What makes money so complicated when it’s just numbers?

🎙️ Key Timestamps

[00:07:00] - Understanding Money Monsters: Doug explains the Enneagram system and how there are nine personality types, each with their own unique "money monsters" that sabotage financial success.

[00:12:00] - From Monk to Money Manager: Doug shares his incredible story of spending 20 years in a monastery that went bankrupt, and how that experience led him to discover his calling in helping others with their finances.

[00:14:30] - The Importance of Taking Action: We discuss how contemplation and compassion are important, but action is the key step to actually solving financial problems.

[00:17:00] - Money as a Tool for Good: Doug shares his philosophy that we're all here to "heal the crack in the world" we were born to fix, and money is the tool that helps us do that.

🔗 Resources & Links

• Connect with Doug Lynam: Visit his website at douglynam.com
• Financial Planning for Young Adults: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/fpya/
• Schedule a Free Money Talk: moneytalk.show/chat