In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, delivers one of the most vital messages for any man facing partner betrayal: you are not to blame for what happened, but your healing is your responsibility.

Adam unpacks the lie many betrayed men carry, that if they had just been “more,” the betrayal wouldn’t have happened. He exposes that lie for what it is: trauma, not truth. With clarity and compassion, he reframes what it means to take ownership, not of the betrayal, but of the healing that must follow.

You’ll learn the dangers of waiting for closure, how to stop tying your recovery to someone else’s remorse, and how to begin validating your own experience. This episode is a call to action to reclaim your power, not as punishment, but as proof that your healing matters now.

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