70: Playing the Long Game in Relationships or How I Spent My Vacation
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Ellen Dorian shares insights from her 10th anniversary Viking river cruise, highlighting three key moves for long-lasting relationships: acceptance, longevity, and defaulting to yes.
Part 1: Acceptance in Long Term Relationships
- Recognizing and appreciating your partner's authentic self
- Distinguishing between tolerance, resignation, and genuine acceptance
- Example: Steve's acceptance of Ellen's coffee house visits
Part 2: Longevity and Vitality
- Importance of physical, mental, and emotional health in relationships
- Observations from the cruise demographic
- Connection between personal vitality and relationship strength
Part 3: Defaulting to Yes
- Overcoming the habit of saying no thanks
- Benefits of staying open to new experiences together
- Example: Hungarian street food cooking class
Key Takeaways:
- Relationships play out over decades, not days
- Staying healthy and active contributes to relationship longevity
- Defaulting to yes keeps relationships fresh and engaging
Call to Action:
Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com for personalized guidance.
Closing Thoughts:
Relationships, like the Danube, change over time but can keep moving along for years with the right approach.
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
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"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
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