Today, we’re answering real listeners’ real questions—in real time. These aren’t hypotheticals. These are the exact moments real men are living through right now. From growing resentment during the grind of entrepreneurship, to being blindsided by a breakup, to feeling stuck in a sexless marriage—these stories are raw, honest, and painfully common.

This episode offers direct insight and powerful next steps for three of the most frequent and emotionally charged issues I hear from high-performing men. If you’ve ever thought “This isn’t how I thought it would go,” this one’s for you.

Part 1: The Business Is Thriving… But the Relationship’s Falling Apart

TJ, a general contractor, shares how the early support in his marriage disappeared once the business got off the ground. His wife seems resentful of the very effort that’s keeping everything afloat.

Ellen explains why this shift is common—and why operational silos at home create the same disconnect as they do in business. Learn how to reengage your partner using the same leadership skills you apply in your company.

Part 2: Blindsided by a Breakup—And Unsure How to Move On

BZ, a startup CEO, thought he was doing everything right. But out of nowhere, his wife left. Now he’s questioning how he missed the signs—and how to prevent it from happening again.

Ellen unpacks the damaging myth of the “good provider,” and shows how structure, discipline, and communication systems (yes, like in business) are essential to staying connected. You’ll also get a 3-part framework to rebuild trust, clarity, and intimacy in your next chapter.

Part 3: From Hot to Not—When the Spark Fades in the Bedroom

JQ’s relationship used to be physically intense and fun. Now? It’s dead quiet. He still wants his wife, but she’s not interested—and he’s terrified that this is just how it’s going to be from now on.

Ellen tackles this fear head-on by breaking down:

1. The myth of spontaneity
2. The Four Thieves of Desire
3. The critical role of vitality—physical, mental, and emotional—and how modern couples are running too lean to sustain passion

Key Takeaways:

Even strong relationships suffer when communication systems break down—just like in business.

The “good provider” myth is deeply ingrained—and gets in the way of a passionate love life.

Desire doesn’t perpetuate itself. You have to create conditions where it can thrive.

If you're burned out, overextended, and running lean, don’t blame your relationship—fix your infrastructure.

Call to Action:

Feeling stuck, confused, or disconnected in your relationship? Book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen. It’s quick, private, and tailored to your specific situation. You’ll leave with clear action steps and a renewed sense of direction.

Closing Thoughts:

If any of today’s listener questions hit close to home, know that you’re not alone—and you’re not out of options. Rebuilding connection is possible when you know what you're up against and have the right tools to repair it. A few powerful strategies, can help you shift the dynamic and get back to a relationship that feels alive again.

Support & Resources:

Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

All links can be found below.

"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian

Disclaimer:

The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations.

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