What happens when your family puts all your belongings in a black garbage bag and leaves them on the street? For Ms Francois, this devastating moment during her first year in America became a pivotal turning point that ultimately led to self-discovery, resilience, and purpose.
Growing up in Trinidad and Tobago before migrating to the United States as a teenager, Ms Francois faced culture shock, abandonment, and the challenge of creating her identity in a foreign land. With remarkable candor and infectious humor, she shares how strangers often provided more genuine support than family—including a chance encounter with someone who had previously yelled at her becoming an unexpected lifeline in her darkest moment.
Throughout our conversation, we explore the transformative power of personal development and self-investment. Ms Francois describes her journey from self-doubt to unshakable confidence: "I am beautiful inside and outside. Nobody could honestly get me down. The only person who could get me down is myself, and that's not happening." This transformation didn't happen overnight but through intentional choices—reading 20-22 books yearly, surrounding herself with like-minded people, and being conscious about the information she consumed.
We challenge conventional thinking about time management with her provocative question: "We all have the same exact 24 hours... if I have time, how come you don't?" This forces us to confront our excuses and recognize that our use of time reflects our true priorities. In an age where technology should make life easier, why do we claim to have less time than previous generations who washed clothes by hand?
The conversation culminates in a powerful philosophy for living purposefully: "Your job is to basically keep your cup full so you can serve others with the overflow." This reframes self-care not as selfishness but as essential preparation for meaningful service to others. Through humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, Ms Francois demonstrates how embracing your authentic identity creates the foundation for genuine connection with others and a life of purpose.
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