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This week I reflect on a conversation I had on Twitter and my TikTok where men were saying women use them for free food by going on the dinner dates they asked us to go on with them. Reality is men do not see value is spending time with women unless it develops into the possibility of body sharing and that's because they are projecting because they don't feel like they have anything much to offer themselves besides money, nor have they tried to cultivate more than that so they have made relationships as a whole transactional while becoming angry at women for recognizing it and demanding value for their time efforts and energy. The latter part is an encouragement for you, as a woman to cultivate the kind of life you deserve free from the expectations that you have to perform womanhood as a service. This is your one life. What do you want from it? How are you working towards it? And for yourself.

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