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Manage episode 514584512 series 2535776
Welcome back to ask uncut where we unpack your deep and burning questions!
Keeshia had a bit of a nightmare commute to work this morning and it led to her disclosing some of our BTS secrets. We somehow ended up speaking about trigger warnings and the research that suggests theyāre not as useful as we have been led to believe.
Vibes for the week:
Keeshia - Emily Henry āGreat Big Beautiful Lifeā
Britt - @parkergetajob
Then we jump into your questions!
THINKING ABOUT MAKING A SEX TAPE FOR MY BF
My partner and I are thinking about making a sex tape. He is FIFO week on week off swings. We canāt really talk on the phone or FaceTime. Because of his job he is around people all the time and sleeps in a swag with everyone else around him so people would hear if I call him for sexy time. I trust him and donāt have any fears that he will show anyone or anything bad will happen. However, am I being stupid because things live on the internet forever and it could always get out somehow. The person you date if not the same person you break up with, maybe it does get out one day. Do I do it or not? Also have either of you ever done it? I love you girls so much and couldnāt think of anyone else I could ask this question to.
HOW TO DISCUSS FINANCES/DEFACTCO WITH NEW BF - I EARN MUCH MORE
Iāve been seeing a guy for about 5-6 months. Everything is going great and he is a walking green flag. Iām starting to feel myself get a bit more invested but still not 100%. My problem is a financial one. I have a relatively successful business (Iām talking 7 figures) which he is aware of. I understand that there will come a time where we have to discuss what this looks like going forward and when we are classed as a de facto relationship, how finances will look.
I know that there are some criteria that have to be met before being classed as a de facto relationship and what he may be entitled to, should we continue on this steady path. In my opinion, everything that I have earnt before him in my business and property purchases, is considered my own and I worry that he could be entitled to that when we are considered de facto (not that I think he would take anything from me, but you never know)! The thing is, Iām unsure of when I should broach this topic with him. Part of me wants to discuss it now so I know we are on the same page, rather than getting another 1-2 years in and he is unhappy about it. If heās unhappy about it, thatās a big red flag to me. Is it worth having this conversation sooner rather than later, and if so, how would you go about discussing it ? We are quite open with everything else and we each know what the other owns and salaries etc. He also partially owns a property and is on a six figure salary.
MY DAUGHTER HAD A SLEEPOVER WITH A STRANGER WITHOUT US KNOWING
I'm married with a 6 year old daughter from a previous marriage. My new husband is amazing and adores my daughter. We are having another baby in November. My in-laws were great for the first few months but have had a few issues come up and I want to know what your opinion is of this particular scenario. My daughter was having a sleepover with my in-laws, who she adores. I found out whilst they had her that my husband's mum's nephew had come over and had a sleepover too. He is 9 and we have met him maybe 2 or 3 times. They slept in the same bed upstairs whilst my partner's parents were sleeping downstairs. We were incredibly uncomfortable with this. When we confronted them, it was basically implied that we were being over dramatic and they refused to accept that we weren't okay with it and did not apologise. Do you think we were being over dramatic? When my husband picked her up he walked in the room and they were watching movies and TV shows in the bed together, not supervised and the nephew didn't even recognise who my husband was so we are definitely not close family.
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Hosted by Britt Hockley & Keeshia Pettit
Produced by Keeshia Pettit
Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford
Recorded on Cammeraygal Land
Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
1037 episodes
Manage episode 514584512 series 2535776
Welcome back to ask uncut where we unpack your deep and burning questions!
Keeshia had a bit of a nightmare commute to work this morning and it led to her disclosing some of our BTS secrets. We somehow ended up speaking about trigger warnings and the research that suggests theyāre not as useful as we have been led to believe.
Vibes for the week:
Keeshia - Emily Henry āGreat Big Beautiful Lifeā
Britt - @parkergetajob
Then we jump into your questions!
THINKING ABOUT MAKING A SEX TAPE FOR MY BF
My partner and I are thinking about making a sex tape. He is FIFO week on week off swings. We canāt really talk on the phone or FaceTime. Because of his job he is around people all the time and sleeps in a swag with everyone else around him so people would hear if I call him for sexy time. I trust him and donāt have any fears that he will show anyone or anything bad will happen. However, am I being stupid because things live on the internet forever and it could always get out somehow. The person you date if not the same person you break up with, maybe it does get out one day. Do I do it or not? Also have either of you ever done it? I love you girls so much and couldnāt think of anyone else I could ask this question to.
HOW TO DISCUSS FINANCES/DEFACTCO WITH NEW BF - I EARN MUCH MORE
Iāve been seeing a guy for about 5-6 months. Everything is going great and he is a walking green flag. Iām starting to feel myself get a bit more invested but still not 100%. My problem is a financial one. I have a relatively successful business (Iām talking 7 figures) which he is aware of. I understand that there will come a time where we have to discuss what this looks like going forward and when we are classed as a de facto relationship, how finances will look.
I know that there are some criteria that have to be met before being classed as a de facto relationship and what he may be entitled to, should we continue on this steady path. In my opinion, everything that I have earnt before him in my business and property purchases, is considered my own and I worry that he could be entitled to that when we are considered de facto (not that I think he would take anything from me, but you never know)! The thing is, Iām unsure of when I should broach this topic with him. Part of me wants to discuss it now so I know we are on the same page, rather than getting another 1-2 years in and he is unhappy about it. If heās unhappy about it, thatās a big red flag to me. Is it worth having this conversation sooner rather than later, and if so, how would you go about discussing it ? We are quite open with everything else and we each know what the other owns and salaries etc. He also partially owns a property and is on a six figure salary.
MY DAUGHTER HAD A SLEEPOVER WITH A STRANGER WITHOUT US KNOWING
I'm married with a 6 year old daughter from a previous marriage. My new husband is amazing and adores my daughter. We are having another baby in November. My in-laws were great for the first few months but have had a few issues come up and I want to know what your opinion is of this particular scenario. My daughter was having a sleepover with my in-laws, who she adores. I found out whilst they had her that my husband's mum's nephew had come over and had a sleepover too. He is 9 and we have met him maybe 2 or 3 times. They slept in the same bed upstairs whilst my partner's parents were sleeping downstairs. We were incredibly uncomfortable with this. When we confronted them, it was basically implied that we were being over dramatic and they refused to accept that we weren't okay with it and did not apologise. Do you think we were being over dramatic? When my husband picked her up he walked in the room and they were watching movies and TV shows in the bed together, not supervised and the nephew didn't even recognise who my husband was so we are definitely not close family.
You can watch us on Youtube
Find us on Instagram
Join us on tiktok
Or join the Facebook Discussion Group
Hosted by Britt Hockley & Keeshia Pettit
Produced by Keeshia Pettit
Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford
Recorded on Cammeraygal Land
Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
1037 episodes
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