What does it take to build a true sense of belonging in an increasingly individualized world? My good friend Sean, went from a shy first-generation Malaysian-American kid to expert community builder by being vulnerable and disciplined. Through his experiences in competitive gaming, CrossFit, and speed puzzling, he demonstrates how consistency and showing up are the foundations of developing meaningful connection.

In this episode we cover:

• How growing up as a Malaysian-American in New Jersey presented cultural integration challenges
• Transitioning from childhood shyness to becoming a community connector through consistent participation
• Finding community through niche hobbies like fighting games, CrossFit, and competitive puzzling
• Overcoming the fear of putting yourself out there when you're new to a group or activity
• The importance of acknowledging others' existence with a simple hello
• Maintaining connections by reaching out to people when they cross your mind
• Three keys to building community: consistency, acknowledgement, and accessibility
• Balancing romantic relationships with maintaining friendships and community connections
• Creating spaces where people can bring their authentic selves

You're in for a good laugh with this one as our familiar banter is ever present. Hope you enjoy the ramblings of friends!

About the Guest:

Sean Hengchua is a 1st generation American from New Jersey who has found himself in the Pacific Northwest. He has developed a knack for connecting with people earnestly.

You can find him on social @Gbursine.

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