28. Raising Givers in a Me-First World: How to Cultivate Generosity in Your Kids
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“It is more blessed to give than to receive — to treat others better than yourself, even at the expense of yourself.” – Lori Lane
In this first episode of a two-part series, Lori and John explore what it means to raise givers, not takers in a culture obsessed with self. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and decades of hands-on parenting, they unpack how to cultivate a heart of generosity in your home, one that mirrors the humility and servant-heartedness of Christ.
Lori shares heartfelt reflections on how the cultural mantra of “you deserve it” has shaped modern parenting, and how families can return to a biblical model that celebrates humility, contentment, and self-sacrifice. Together, she and John offer encouragement and practical wisdom for building homes where giving flows naturally from hearts transformed by the gospel.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- The biblical foundation for generosity in Acts 20:35 and Philippians 2:3–5
- How subtle parenting habits can unintentionally foster entitlement
- Why rewarding character over performance helps build a humble heart
- Practical ways to model generosity through time, service, and daily example
- How inconsistent boundaries can create a “me-first” mindset in children
- What it looks like to teach humility and sacrificial love within your family rhythm
This episode calls parents to reframe generosity as a reflection of God’s own giving nature. When we model servant-hearted living in our homes, we’re not just raising kind kids; we’re raising disciples who reflect the heart of Christ.
More About The Legacy Parenting Podcast:
The Legacy Parenting Podcast is hosted by John and Lori Lane, who bring over four decades of experience in education and the arts, 39 years of parenting four sons, and 25 years of homeschooling to each episode. Through their podcast, they combine biblical wisdom with real-life experience and proven educational principles to equip parents with faith-filled, practical strategies for building strong families on the unchanging foundation of God's Word.
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